Are you afraid to be home alone?

[Irisheyes]

I know it's hard to be alone at home and especially at night
Be patient for your fiance until God brings you together
and when this will happen (inshaa'allah), you will forget all the bad memories, even your loneliness.
Hard moments,makes us stronger and wiser.

Thank you Intik-mks that is really nice of you and i wait for the day that it will happen xx

 

[Re.TiReD]

I abolustely love being home alone, the only weird sound I hear is the neighbours cat, I do on ocassion lock every single door so that the only thing between me and a burglar is our sturdy front door and if I hear anybody trying to break in then I'd have my fone and landline fone and awesome self defence skills, which burglar would stand a chance??

 

[Ramadhan]

awesome self defence skills,

When you said you have awesome defence skills, I picture you as this:

No burglar stand a chance, indeed!

 

[Haya emaan]

i like to be home alone some times... it feels so comfortable to be only me and my self alone certain times.. but Alhamdulilah m not scared.. when its dark and scary sounds around the house i just close all the doors..

bieng alone in the nights at home is the best time to imagine the darkness and loneliness of the grave where u will be burried ALONE after your death...

 

[yas2010]

In December i was due my little boy, and the house was filled with excitement. I would take my two daughters off to school in the morning and then fill my days with the excitement of my impending arrival. But Subanh'Allah i lost my son, he was stillborn at term. My daughters returned to school and my husband returned to work. I was alone, some days all i could do was cry.

But the mercy of Allah(Swt) the structure of my day was through pray. Yes i have lost my son but through the blessing of Allah(swt) i never feel alone. I have a copy of the Qu'ran nearby and in between my prays i read and try my best to understand what my creator is asking of me. So yes i was afraid of being alone, but Allah(swt) helps me through.

 

[AishaRayann]

I voted yes, and im female. Its only under certain conditions. I'm scared to be alone when it is dark outside and I get paranoid check the doors many times..have my phone handy. or when someone takes a trip or vacation im scared all day..and cry.

 

[Re.TiReD]

When you said you have awesome defence skills, I picture you as this:

No burglar stand a chance, indeed!

If only I was that kool =P

 

[flowergarden]

Salaam,

I will be honest. I am a female and sometimes I am afraid to be alone. What scares me is because my neighborhood is has alot of bad people in it, but if it was a safe place I wouldn't be... But recently I took self defense classes, so I feel more comfortable...

What is the most scariest thing is that I will have to move out soon for Law school and I will have to live alone. But my brothers will be there here and there so that's a great thing

 

[Scimitar]

Masha-Allah, My fiance lives in Texas Houston and she's alone with her child... She often tells me that she hates it there. I'm just saving enough money to fly over and bring her here (to London), Insha-Allah...

...It's tough for women.

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[Who Am I?]

Well I live alone, so I can't very well be too afraid.

 

[Ali Mujahidin]

However lonely we may feel in dunya is nothing compared to the loneliness of the grave. In the grave, our only companions will be our solah and amal ibadat. Whenever I feel lazy to perform my solah on time, I remind myself that in the grave, it will be my solah and amal ibadat that will keep me company. WaLLahu aklam.

 

[Beardo]

When you said you have awesome defence skills, I picture you as this:

No burglar stand a chance, indeed!

Hey, are you calling me a fat panda? imsad

All jokes aside, it is important to have some knowledge of self-defense. Gives confidence, too.

 

[Ali Mujahidin]

This is more like what I imagine it to be:

 

[Serendipity]

I don't mind but i am a very paranoid person so staying home at night sometimes terrifies me. Everything gets 10x scarier at that time..

 

[joyous fairy]

Assalam alaykum.

Im not usually scared when Im at home alone. Ive never had the opportuntiy to stay all alone for the whole night though, only for a few hours or so.

When I hear noises I just creep around the house slowly to see if theres anyone hiding behind doors or anything. Sometimes I shout 'who is it?' when I think Ive heard the door. And sometimes when I think theres a burglar or something, I shout it so that they can get out and go without me seeing them lol.

 

[m2p]

Muslims should only fear allah

here is a cool story

their was a group of students and a teacher

the teacher asked his students "what is the name of allah that you like the most"

one student replied Al mumeet (the giver of death)

the teacher puzzled asked why

the student replied : by remembering that allah is Al mumeet i know that nothing can harm me except by the will of allah

 

[Marina-Aisha]

to be honest i get little scared at night,sometimes i freak out alittle when i hear a noise i just feel more safe knowning my partner is next to me.

 

[Huzzy_786]

To be honest, It really depends on what time of day it is, because in the day i'd feel safe and secure but at the time of night, I might just be scared to go downstairs.. :S