are you an optimist or pessimist?

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are you a pessimist or optimist?


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Iv changed my mind, pessimist.

Just had a neighbour spend ten minutes telling me how bad naseeb I am.

Alhamdulillah..

As I said to him.
 
Do you want to always optimist in doing an effort?. Know your ability. So you can make realistic target that fit your ability and have spirit to reach it. If you make the target that too high, then you would feel difficult to reach it and begin to pessimist.

Do not make a target that beyond your ability, but always improve your ability, so step by step you can lift up your target higher and higher.
 
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Alhamdhullilah, an optimist: I have high hopes and a positive outlook usually, even when the odds are against me (hehe).
 
I began as an optimist, but now I am kinda, a realist.. I do whatever I can do, and leave the rest to Allah.. Wherever I end up. That is my destination. I try my best, and Allah does the rest.

I am fundamentally an optimist, but I act like a realist coupled with pessimism lol. xD
 
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Used to be optimist and always hoped and thought for the best.

But as time went on realism struck. I am no longer optimistic and can't think like that.

Been praying and hoping like mad that Allah helps me in my quest with these beastly neighbours for a long long time. Things go from bad to worse to even worse. Not had a wink of sleep all weekend. So no more optimism from me ever again. Sorry to harp on about the same thing again and again but had to give you an example.

And before anyone says you have to make an effort. I have. Been to view that many houses and flats and none of them are what they are supposed to be. My investment is still not being returned and I get more crazy as each day goes by. Today I even wrote my will go case I end up doing something crazy!!!
 
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Used to be optimist and always hoped and thought for the best.

But as time went on realism struck. I am no longer optimistic and can't think like that.

Been praying and hoping like mad that Allah helps me in my quest with these beastly neighbours for a long long time. Things go from bad to worse to even worse. Not had a wink of sleep all weekend. So no more optimism from me ever again. Sorry to harp on about the same thing again and again but had to give you an example.

And before anyone says you have to make an effort. I have. Been to view that many houses and flats and none of them are what they are supposed to be. My investment is still not being returned and I get more crazy as each day goes by. Today I even wrote my will go case I end up doing something crazy!!!

Yes, do dua. Now go to their door and say to them "stop the noise!" if they won't respect that, then again... if still.. then go again and say "Come on!" if still......................

yeah I feel ya.
 
I began as an optimist, but now I am kinda, a realist.. I do whatever I can do, and leave the rest to Allah.. Wherever I end up. That is my destination. I try my best, and Allah does the rest. I am fundamentally an optimist, but I act like a realist coupled with pessimism lol. xD
experience speaks a lot
 
What's naseeb bro? I think that since the dawn of time we're all pessimistic and that if we search for the light deep inside of us we can therefore change the negs to pos and become optimistic.
 

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