Are You Close To Your Family??

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When every member of the family aims to acheive one goal at the end of the day, "pleasing Allah swt" in every way, they all work together and avoid things which will hurt the other family member's feelings.-therefore Pleases Allah swt. 'Abidying by the laws of Allah (swt), helps a broken family to come true, and function as a system. SubhaAllah. I have seen it before my eyes. alhamdulilah.

Yes, I am close to very my mom and my siblings. I love my dad too, but we tend to have a 'daughter-father' conversations usually after the fajr prayer, because thats my especial time with him.:sister:

My mom and I are share our thoughts most of the time, I seek advice from her too, and what i find helpful is having a sense of humor and big heart for asking and forgiving others, overall a humble n positive attitute. all helps.
 
I love my dad too, but we tend to have a 'daughter-father' conversations usually after the fajr prayer, because thats my especial time with him.:sister:
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awwwwwwwwwwwww......sis.....father daughter talks during fajr...thats soo cute... i have father daughter talks almots the whole day i keep buggin him !:lol::statisfie
 
im close to each family member and friends in different ways.....talk to different people about different things......but i tend to keep things to my self if it causes others distress.......
 
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Yes I am!!!!!

Let me relate my sad story to you.....:'(

Well...when my grandparents were in this country...I used to love them dearly....I always used to help them out as much as i could...goin 2 masjid with my Grandad every single Jama'at.

Then they went 2 Bangaldesh in November after Ramadhaan and they're gonna stay there until May...(that's a long time since i have'nt been without them 4 more than 1 month)...Anyways when they went I felt a great deal of distress, I was fealing so upset..................i miss them so much, they used to make me feel happy whenever I went to their house....Now I'm so lonely and I always cry for them that Allah brings them back quickly(Ameen,Inshallah)...But anyways the brothers (and sisters) in this forum have cheered me up a LOT.....Jazaakallah brothers and sisters 4 supporing me...especially brother Fi_sabilillah May Allah grant him, me and every1 Jannah Ameen!!!
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interesting view mashallah, funnily this is hw i feel and still feel if my mum and dad leave me even though im a grown women!!

I feel as if with them im somethnig, but with out them am nothing at all!! Me and mum are very close mashalah, lyk sisters u can say!! without her permissoin i do nothing at all, i feel her pain, her happiness!! Don't wanna leave her at all, i knw i have to! but its gna b hard for me and her!! We are inseparable, make allah(swt) keep our family lyk dis forever!!

At the moment my dads gne hajj, i feel so empty something special has disappered. Inshalah i pray a safe journey for him!!

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I would say I'm very close to my family and as the years pass the family tends to get closer. As a middle child I tend to be close in my own way to each member..I love being everyones confidante! :sister:
 
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Alhmduliaah im very close wiv all ma family members....i Luv them all 4 da sake of Allah...
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:sl: yes but they are all non muslims which can be hard some time i try my best to explane to them about islam but becouse my father died meny years age and my mum is nearly 71 i have to look out for her as i'm the her youngst :w: :sister:
 
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My family and the relationships we share are so close to my heart alahamdullillah....My grandparents in particular have inspired me. The men were ‘characters’ and the women were incredibly strong. They’re all wonderful storytellers, with their hearts as big as their tales..masha'allah.....If i start talking about the bond i share with my family it will take me forever to finish it..:)....Family is very special to me...Being so close with my family is an incredibly important part of my life..I cherish every moment i share with them :wub: :'(
 
I barely know my male cousins overseas and I feel so guilty because I hardly go talk to them when I do go. I talk to my female cousins more often.

Its like we live so far apart and we are first cousins but don't know eachother at all.

My dad told me that I don't need to converse with them anyway. Hi and bye is enough.
 
Oh and my intermediate family and I are pretty close...for the most part. although I don't have long coversations with my mom or dad that much.
 

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