Are you going to get Married??

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To answer the thread question..... Nope! I am quite content being man-less for the remainder of my days. :)
 
Zuzubu said:
Yes I am gonna get married Insha'Allah, why? =)

It's so annoying that a woman can be so expensive... duhhh!! Why not do like the prophet? Give them guests some dates, wines, bread, water, and cold yoghurt, and take the woman? (after giving her some camels)
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you speak as if men dont enjoy the whole celebrations/drama/pomp etc when infact you see many do. :hiding:
 
Is there anything called halal wine?
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Muscadine. I don't know if they have it everywhere though.

Is that your own wedding, Endymion? If so, congratulations.
 
The simpler the better...I believe so...I think its excess spending and a waste to put so much money for just one day
 
A wedding can be elegant with simplicity. Like marrying in a beautiful garden. I wouldn't mind that at all!
 
are non-mehram males from audience allowed to look at ones wife-to-be who is all dressed up for the occasion?
 
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I'm getting married in Shaa'baan (i.e. July) inshAllah
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Congratulations!
May Allah bless your marriage with so much barokah and may your family be sakinah mawardah warrohmah.
 
I don't know why some of you guys are hating on the pictures. The pictures are really beautiful and if you can afford that kind of wedding, do as you please. Sure, there might be better things to spend on. But maybe that wedding didn't cost much? You can have a grand-looking wedding for cheap, if you improvise. :)

As for me, I'd rather have something elegantly simple. Simple is elegance, as they say.
 
Beardo said:
I don't know why some of you guys are hating on the pictures. The pictures are really beautiful and if you can afford that kind of wedding, do as you please. Sure, there might be better things to spend on. But maybe that wedding didn't cost much? You can have a grand-looking wedding for cheap, if you improvise. :)

As for me, I'd rather have something elegantly simple. Simple is elegance, as they say.
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ugh, define beautiful? Seems everything cluttered together on the tables, glasses and liquids :S

and for what reason in this universe would one put cloth strips in the trees :S
 
mad_scientist said:
ugh, define beautiful? Seems everything cluttered together on the tables, glasses and liquids :S

and for what reason in this universe would one put cloth strips in the trees :S
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lol :) I'm not suggesting you have a wedding like that, but I don't see anything wrong with it either. Perhaps it's not a preference of you and I, but if it suits a newly wed's taste and they can afford it without difficulty, why not? Let them enjoy as they please in the Halaal. :) As long as there's no dancing or anything, lol!

The cloth strips add a beautiful decoration, actually. Perhaps they will be re-used for the entire community's weddings! It'll add elegance and joy to the auspicious occasion. We are not to judge.
 
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I don't see anything wrong with it either.
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i remember of marriages in times of Prophet PBUH. oh how prophet PBUH marry her most beloved daughter Fatma RA. Ali RA was not much attractive and wealthy and there are many other suhaba RA who wants to send their proposal for Fatma Ra. but prophet PBUH prefer Ali bcz of knowledge and bravery. Surely these ppl had janah, jahanum , death and qabar in front of their eyes....so they dont find any taste and attachment in these worldly things...and we, we need to learn islam...we are very far away from islam.
 
Ghazalah said:
Way too much for my liking, simplicity is the best.
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But that Car is saying something else :D :p

PouringRain said:
To answer the thread question..... Nope! I am quite content being man-less for the remainder of my days. :)
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people think at the end of the day a man is the only answer.Actually, a fulfilling job is better for me. -Princess Diana-
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Yahya Sulaiman said:
Is that your own wedding, Endymion? If so, congratulations.
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Nope,my wedding will be in a Masjid with few guests and i'll spend all the budget of my wedding in performing Umrah or Hajj,inshallah :statisfie
But these are Just my plans,lets see what Allah swt decide for me :hmm:

P.s.
Hey,i thought you are in Bahamas ^o)

Ali_008 said:
I'm getting married in Shaa'baan (i.e. July) inshAllah. :D
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Inshallah,congratulations :statisfie

naidamar said:


Congratulations!
May Allah bless your marriage with so much barokah and may your family be sakinah mawardah warrohmah.
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Bless your Marriage with Barakah and your family by.......:hmm: by...........:embarrass ......By What?? :><:
 
Ali_008 said:
I'm getting married in Shaa'baan (i.e. July) inshAllah. :D



I've heard Saudi Arabia has a lot of fancy non-alcoholic drinks.;D
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Hello! :sl:

How are you? After a loooong time, huh? remember me? :p

And congratulations for you upcoming wedding...:)

*sighs* when am i going to get married! :p
 
Here in Thailand, I am part of a Muslim community that conducts weddings this way:

1. The akad nikah is performed during our weekly meetings which is usually attended by just a few thousand members, all males. Two weeks ago, I attend a few akad nikahs performed during one of our national conventions attended by about 30K members, including a few foreign delegations.

2. The mahar can be as simple as just a Quran.

3. The walimah is usually just a few boxes of dried dates shared among those present. So each of us gets a couple of dates to munch on.

4. The bride is never present. Only her wali is present.

Hopefully we are on the right track. Insha Allah.
 
Spending so much money on a wedding when you can just do one with half its price, is a waste of money! Instead you should give to the people dieing out there. Doesnt matter if theres muslim or non muslim ! They need help, imagine if you were in that situation.
 

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