I posted this in another thread, but here:
TO all the men looking for wives:
1. If you want supermodels, they'll come to you when you start looking like an underwear model. Otherwise, hit the gym, eat right, and give your potential wife something good to look at just as she spent all those years exercising and watching what she ate.
2. I disagree only partially with the idea of not to marry for beauty. The only reason is that there are TONS of beautiful women with GREAT personalities. likewise, there are TONS of people who aren't attractive who have pretty trashy personalities. The point is that the 2 are not inversely related. I think it comes off as such in a lot of the previous examples of men who married for beauty alone. Just don't assume that beautiful women that you see have rotten personalities. More likely than not, they have wonderful personalities.
3. The "sparks" ALWAYS go. There is actually a medical term for this: Limerence. These sparks will be replaced with friendship. This person is going to be your lifelong friend, so deal with it (men and women) when Limerence goes away, and don't be foolish into thinking you've fallen out of love with your significant other and suddenly want a divorce.
4. There are very few reasons why you should divorce in the first place. Irreconcilable differences is NOT one of them. Everyone with a brother or sister should know this. Most divorces are due to arguments, how many siblings have disowned each other under similar circumstances of arguments? NONE. Learn to communicate, deal, and comprimise with your spouse.
