BadBoys VS I work in my Dads rich Business Boy

AnonymousGender said:
I meant someone like Umar Ibn Al-Khattab (ra) in character but who has the mercy of Abu bakr (ra).
Click to expand...

:sl:

Women don't give birth to men like Abu Bakr (ra) and Umar (ra) anymore. I mean you need to also ask yourself are you like a sahabiya with their kinds of qualities? If not, then brothers are not like the sahaba, nor anywhere close. Marry someone who's pious, who you're comfortable being with, someone who's compatible, you like, and don't marry anyone you don't like. What I'm saying is, set your standard high, but be careful not to place it impossibly high.
 
Abu Sayyad said:
:sl:

Women don't give birth to men like Abu Bakr (ra) and Umar (ra) anymore. I mean you need to also ask yourself are you like a sahabiya with their kinds of qualities? If not, then brothers are not like the sahaba, nor anywhere close. Marry someone who's pious, who you're comfortable being with, someone who's compatible, you like, and don't marry anyone you don't like. What I'm saying is, set your standard high, but be careful not to place it impossibly high.
Click to expand...

Wow u make some depressing posts, is all I gotta say.

The rest was nice tho.
 
Assalamu Alaikum :)

I think i know where your comming from sister but a brother wouldnt have to be a "badboy" to be in the "real world" you could also be a "goodboy" and everyone has their own conception of the two. Ideally a "goodboy" would have good manners and a "badboy" would have bad manners, a "goodboy" is calm wheras the "badboy" would be chaotic and you will find many differences between the two good and bad, I guess the point is whether your a "man" or not. Now a man is sophisticated, a man is responsible, a man does not burden another, a man knows his limits, knows when to stop, when to say yes and when to say no.

You dont just become a man by thinking your a man and if you feel your not a man? its not because you dont know how to be or even that you dont want to be, its because your behaving outside the character of a man, your actions deny you the classification of a man as they sever the means to becoming one.

I dont mean to offend anybody, everybody makes their own choices, everybody chooses the life they lead and the enviroment they want to dwell in, its another matter whether your successful in it or not. Just know that whatever path you choose whatever choices you make? Your standing, your judgment with God has got nothing to do with anybody but yourself.

If your confused brothers and sisters if your life is at a mystified stage dont fret! All you have to do is submit yourself to Islam because Islam will bring you to life Islam will bring you to reality Islam will take you towards the light.

I hope im not way off topic :-\

Assalamu Alaikum :)
 
sister, i know what you are talking about.

i think it is biological.... men, when they are single, tend to be more competitive and aggressive, having noticeably higher levels of testosterone! The women are more attracted to these stronger ones. Then when they have kids, the kids will be with the stronger one and more likely to survive.

Hehe, but its hard to think how this translates into some girl getting excited over a "sleezy" guy.

methinks what you really desire is not a "badboy," but rather someone who excites you and makes you laugh... who brings something new to the table every day. In reality, every girl wants this. yeah the money and the shoes and the purses are nice, but they won't be lying next to you every night for the rest of your life. Oh if it were only some handsome man who understood how to make you smile with every word he said! Then his touch becomes so much more meaningful than anything else in dunya.

If this were the man you had, then you wouldn't be complaining huh? you wouldn't even care if you woke up next to him in a hammock over a dirt floor for the rest of your life would you?

No, you would care about that! its not the money, its the personality. Ditch this guy, if it's not right, and wait for Allah swt to bring you someone you deserve.
 
Girls love bad boys, that the way it is, thats if your into all that dating kind of thing.

I have actually heard girls say this, when a good guy comes along they dont wana know.
 
Lol calling all badboys!! Report here now!! :P

hahahaha it's funny you should want a badboy.
Be careful what you wish for ;)
 
nightstar said:
Girls love bad boys, that the way it is, thats if your into all that dating kind of thing.

I have actually heard girls say this, when a good guy comes along they dont wana know.
Click to expand...

well....when bad boys come along girls are left heartbroke and that is a proven fact!
 
bad boys? i just want to live with some cats and some cans of peaches in syrup, is that too much to ask for :mmokay:
 

Similar Threads

Back
Top