Flame of Hope
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Feeling gratitude and not expressing it is like wrapping a present and not giving it.
- William Arthur Ward

This little quote ought to be highlighted and pasted on the wall.
What use is feeling appreciation for something that someone did and then not saying it?
In the same vein, one could say, what use is believing in Allah and His Messenger but refusing to say it?
If it was enough just to have feelings of gratitude, thankfulness, appreciation, faith, trust, love etc. in your heart and you think to yourself that this is all that matters, then why do people have to say out loud the shahadah to be a Muslim?
Your belief or faith isn't valid unless you declare it. If it was, then we wouldn't need to say the shahadah.
It's necessary to say it.... in order to prove that what you feel or believe in your heart is true.
If you don't say what's in your heart, it's as good as not having it. It's being miserly. Like a man who has wealth but won't spend it.
The Prophet (saws) even told us.... if you love someone.... go and tell that person you love him/her. If you don't, how is anyone going to know how you feel?
Also think about it this way. You are thankful to Allah for what He has given you. But the word of thanks "alhamdulillah!" doesn't come out of your lips.
If you are truly thankful, you'd say "Alhamdulillah"!
If you are truly appreciative of Allah's perfection, you'd say "Subhanallah"!
If you truly love someone, you'd tell that person, "I love you." For example, you would not just express your love in just words, you'd also show in actions. Like buying your Mom some roses to tell her how much you love her, while she's alive... Not buying them for her after she's dead.... and expecting her to have known that you had always loved her.
If you are truly grateful to someone for what he or she did, you'd say "Thankyou."
Whatever good is in your heart should be expressed in words. Or else, it has no value.
So yeah. Feeling gratitude and not expressing it is like wrapping a present and not giving it.