Gems Beautiful Quotes, Proverbs, Sayings

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You can't change people no matter how hard you try, all you can do is rely on Allah, He alone is the ultimate guide and changer of hearts so put your trust in Him.

Don't feel bad and down about not being able to guide your family/friends to act in the coorect ways according to Islam, its not your job to change peoples hearts, that's up to Allah, all you can do is give good, honest advise when you can and pray for their guidance to Allah swt.

No two people are the same, everyone is unique with their own life stories, background, upbringing and education. You can't ever compare 2 people even if they have similar goals, qualities and values, they have different life stories with different challenges and trials. You should judge people based on their background and life struggles they have overcome and are facing because that highlights their strengths, attitude, values and character.

Everyone has a unique story with unique family, unique background and different life choices that define who they are today so don't make bad judgements about someone without knowing their full story. Make excuses, forgive and overlook and think good of others because that’s good for your soul.

Treat everyone fairly and with justice even if they are unfair and self fish because Allah loves those who are fair, merciful and just. Sometimes only way to teach some bad people truth, fairness and justice is by showing them acts of honesty, mercy and fairness. Some people only follow trends and culture.
 
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"The most important thing in all human relationships is conversation, but people don’t talk anymore, they don’t sit down to talk and listen. They go to the theater, the cinema, watch television, listen to the radio, read books, but they almost never talk.
If we want to change the world, we have to go back to a time when warriors would gather around a fire and tell stories."
- Paulo Coelho
 
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Don't associate yourself with someone who considers you insignificant, plain, boring or leaves you out many times. Good people don't think about others in that way and they don't ignore/exclude someone and make them feel a like third wheel so avoid the company of rude people but don't be disrespectful and be rude back because you become as bad as them.

Be aware of friendly, outgoing people with bad temperament who can change from friendly chat to rudeness in a split second when they feel offended about something.


Don't be stingy with the knowledge and wealth Allah has given you, don't keep it to yourself and only share with very few you like. Knowledge and wealth comes from Allah so spread it if you possess it for the sake of Allah and don't hide & withhold like miserly person.

Don't marry someone who is stingy, competitive and proud/narcissist in nature, it will be an unhappy marriage where you will be constantly trying to meet their high standards. Those types of people will make you miserable with their stinginess and will never be content with what they have and what they do not have, they will always want more and will never be satisfied and will be hard to please. Even if you meet their high standards, their stinginess will make you miserable and you will become angry and resentful towards their proud, narcissist nature/characteristics.
 
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"Your spouse, like death it has already been written for you but just as death comes to you by Allah's will, so does love." Sheikh Kalid Yasin
 
"Islam will be destroyed by the mistakes of scholars, the arguments of the hypocrites who misinterpret the Qur'an to support their views, and misleading rulers." Umar ibn Al Khattab radhiAllahu anhu
 
People can have a problem with you for no good reason but as long as you don't have a problem with them for no good reason, they will forget that they even had a problem with you.

Don't make anything personal, make your decisions based on whats clearly right and clearly wrong. Always be fair to everyone, you're not truly just/fair if you personally attack/target specific people just because you don't like them for whatever reason.

Don't be a fool and trust everyone who always tries to come across friendly & perfect. No one is perfect but some people think by focusing on other peoples weaknesses, it makes them come across so much better but it doesn't. Its the weak and insecure individuals who does this but tries to overcompensate with their general friendliness to make themselves feel better.
 
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"I need the reward more than the beggar needs the money." Uthman ibn Affan, radhiAllahu anhu
 
Two beggars knocked on the door asking for bread. One beggar was given a loaf and sent away. The other was kept waiting and waiting. At length, the second beggar became concerned. "Why am I being denied? What is so lacking in me that the other one was favoured over me?" he asked himself. Unknown to the beggar, a fresh loaf was being baked for him inside the house.

Let’s remember that Allah’s delays are not always His denials. His timing is always perfect.

Allah has perfect timing..never early, never late. It takes a little patience and it takes a lot of faith but it's worth the wait.

We dont know what tomorrow holds but know who holds tomorrow - ALLAH, The Most Merciful, The Most Loving, The All Wise.

"My heart is at ease knowing that what was meant for me will never miss me, and that what misses me was never meant for me.” - Imam Ash-Shafi.

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Two beggars knocked on the door asking for bread. One beggar was given a loaf and sent away. The other was kept waiting and waiting. At length, the second beggar became concerned. "Why am I being denied? What is so lacking in me that the other one was favoured over me?" he asked himself. Unknown to the beggar, a fresh loaf was being baked for him inside the house.

Let’s remember that Allah’s delays are not always His denials. His timing is always perfect.

Allah has perfect timing..never early, never late. It takes a little patience and it takes a lot of faith but it's worth the wait.

We dont know what tomorrow holds but know who holds tomorrow - ALLAH, The Most Merciful, The Most Loving, The All Wise.

"My heart is at ease knowing that what was meant for me will never miss me, and that what misses me was never meant for me.” - Imam Ash-Shafi.

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Wow. Beautiful. May Allah reward you.
 
"I need the reward more than the beggar needs the money." Uthman ibn Affan, radhiAllahu anhu

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Welcome to the forum sister! :) Your posts have been really good mashaAllah! Keep up the good work! May Allah swt reward you with goodness, Ameen.

Two beggars knocked on the door asking for bread. One beggar was given a loaf and sent away. The other was kept waiting and waiting. At length, the second beggar became concerned. "Why am I being denied? What is so lacking in me that the other one was favoured over me?" he asked himself. Unknown to the beggar, a fresh loaf was being baked for him inside the house.

Let’s remember that Allah’s delays are not always His denials. His timing is always perfect.

Allah has perfect timing..never early, never late. It takes a little patience and it takes a lot of faith but it's worth the wait.

We dont know what tomorrow holds but know who holds tomorrow - ALLAH, The Most Merciful, The Most Loving, The All Wise.

"My heart is at ease knowing that what was meant for me will never miss me, and that what misses me was never meant for me.” - Imam Ash-Shafi.

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SubhanAllah Amazing story & quote by Imam Shafi Rahimahullah...love all his quotes, all full of wisdom with the remembrance of Allah. Alhamdulillah.

JazakAllah khair!
 
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Welcome to the forum sister! :) Your posts have been really good mashaAllah! Keep up the good work! May Allah swt reward you with goodness, Ameen

Wa alaykum a'salam wa rahmat Allahi wa barakatuhu. JazakAllahu khayr for the kind words, sister.
 
Abu Bakr as-Siddiq radhiAllahu anhu said, "Indeed Allah forgives major sins, so do not despair, and indeed Allah punishes for minor sins, so do not be deceived." Sharh al-Bukhari by Ibn Battal 19/267
 
"There is no relationship between Allah and anyone except through obedience to Him." Umar ibn Al Khattab radhiAllahu anhu
 
Rasul Allah (sal Allahu alaihi wa sallam) said: “Whoever does not argue when he is in the wrong will have a home built for him on the edge of Paradise. Whoever avoids it when he in the right will have a home built for him in the middle of Paradise. And whoever improves his own character, a home will be built for him in the highest part of Paradise.” [Tirmidhi]
 

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