brothers in the way!!

In The Name Of Allah, The Most Gracious, The Most Merciful​

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youngsister said:
do you know what i mean:-[

Alhamdullilah I do lower my gaze.........but the point is about the brothers chilling at the exit, I know am not the one committing the sin but Wallahi lets just say some brothers make me feel awkward....Y SHOULD THAT BE! anyways please don’t twist my point. Like I said I’ll take the sisters advice, and just write a notice for the brothers not to hang around the exit after prayer. We as women have rights too ya know.
sallam:peace:
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i think you addressed the wrong person. everybody else were asking how did the sister know the brothers were looking at her and that she should lower her gaze.
i just agreed lowering the gaze is important in every circumstances. my point is that the brothers should be told to move from that area since it is designated for the sisters. if a sister was to go to the brothers' exit to wait for her dad, this is would cause huge uproar from the brothers. the brothers should be more considered.
btw, i was the one who recommended the sisters to hang a notice for the brothers. I understand how you feel about the awkwardness. even in my Niqab i would feel the same as well.

wasalam
-SI-
 
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you should have given them a piece of your mind and told them to have some shame and lower their gazes.
 
:w: Since it's better for us sisters to pray at home, I'd suggest you do so yaa ukhtee so that you won't have to run into such an uncomfortable situation. Or if you're brave tell 'em..! :D :okay:
 
In The Name Of Allah, The Most Gracious, The Most Merciful​

:salamext:

BanGuLLy said:
I'm not really clear on this thing.. but I never knew we cant see a girls face... looking at body parts is a different thing... but the quran or hadith actually says we cant look at a girl's face? People look at each other all the time and just cuz someone looks at you for a second doesnt mean he likes u or hes attracted to you.. its natural.. you always look at everyone around you..
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Our face is the center of our beauty. The face is what catches the attention first. If the face is attractive, then we are tempted to look twice.
Check these sites our about Niqab.

http://www.askimam.org/fatwa/fatwa.php?askid=0fa3005a27b626c083c2467d3ef35484
http://www.islamqa.com/index.php?ln=eng&QR=12525

Wasalam
-SI-
 
Ourra-Tul-'Ain said:
then they don’t even lower their gaze, I can almost feel their eyes burning me
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:salamext: sometimes it may seem as though you are the focus of everybodies attention when the fact of the matter is that you are NOT, I know that through experience. If you keep your gaze down Insha'Allah you'll be fine.
 

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