You are pushing material conquest over spiritual progress
I believe they are linked and directly influence one another equally.
I believe that the material world is a reflection of the spiritual within each of us. If we are spiritually mature, it will reflect in our physical deeds and our successes.
Is the father who disciplines his child selfish and abhorrent?
I am not saying: "Do not help people."
What I am saying is: "Help people become successful and strong."
I believe you can throw all the money in the world at a problem, and that problem will never be resolved until both wisdom and strength rule how that money is used. In America, this approach was used in schools that were populated mostly by low-income and impoverished students. The government increased the funding to these schools, with no results. Then, inspired by great compassion for the student who fail and are held back, they implemented a new policy which says that the school can only hold back a student for one grade only. After that, they are automatically processed into the next grade so they "don't get left behind." What was the result? Lots and lots of idiots "graduating" from school. More kids dropping out because they couldn't keep up.
Is it uncompassionate, dark, and selfish to say that people who do not work for something should not get it?
Do you not think it is wrong to steal from someone so that someone who makes no effort to succeed gets what is stolen?
I worked to get what I have. I worked in school to learn what I learned, and to pass the tests to earn the qualifications and certifications that I have so that I could prove that I had the skill to practice my craft effectively and safely. None of that was given to me. Also, I had to pay for all of it. If I had failed a test, I would not have deserved to pass. This is simple logic.
I believe this is reflected in all things.
Should we make sure that each impoverished family is provided a house, a car, food, clothing, and communications?
Or should we strive to help those people become strong themselves so they can work and provide those things own their own for themselves?
For instance, my neighbor came to me and said his lawn mower was broken. He asked me if he could use my lawn mower. I told him, "No, but I will help you fix yours."
And then the big question: What happens when, after all of this is done, the weak and the slugs of society continue to remain weak? How many times will you try to fix a thing until you decide to throw it away and replace it with something that works? Is believing that people should be willing to work and provide for themselves really un-Islamic? Is it really un-Islamic to say that those who work hard to provide for their families must also work hard to provide for the families that are unwilling to provide for themselves? I'm not talking about caring for children or the elderly, or the injured. I'm talking about casting out those who CHOOSE not to make an effort.
Let's look at Cuba, when Fidel Castro took the island with a grand total of 1500 soldiers. What did the Cubans do? They fled. They offered virtually no resistance. They ran from their country! They would not stand and fight. Shame on them, I say! Don't expect me to fight for you when you will not fight for yourself. But that's exactly what they asked of me by coming to my country asking for refuge, because I was a soldier for my country.
So that's my perspective, and I do not think it is dark, or wrong, to ask someone to provide for themselves. Nor do I think it is dark or wrong to say that if they don't work to earn something, they don't deserve to have it.
I do not exactly enjoy nationalism, because each "nation" is like its own entity. If one embraces nationalism, they should embrace the idea that each nation should take care of itself like each human being takes care of itself. If one needs help from others, that is fine. But there is a difference between helping someone, and "doing for someone." Now, if the world were a single nation, we wouldn't exactly have these divided ideals.