Can you marry without parents consent

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I wanted to know that if you wanted to marry someone who is Muslim and practicing however your parents do not agree to the Nikah can you still go without parents consent and get married.

Please give me your views on this with proof from the Hadith and Quran.

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Umm isnt this a fiqh issue? :?
to be honest i dont think its possible to marry without a wali... coz then how did u end up findin the partner :? ...cant b thru halal means...

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The guardian of the woman to be married should also be present. The Prophet says: "No marriage can be made without the presence of a guardian and two proper witnesses." (Related by Ad Daraqutni). The woman's guardian is normally her father. If her father is present, no one other than him may act for her. If he is dead or absent, then one of her closest relatives should act as her guardian, such as her brother, grandfather or uncle.
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Sis786 said:
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I wanted to know that if you wanted to marry someone who is Muslim and practicing however your parents do not agree to the Nikah can you still go without parents consent and get married.

Please give me your views on this with proof from the Hadith and Quran.

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Marry with your parents consent. It'll save you from headaches. Especially later when you have children. You wouldn't want them to grow up knowing that you are somehow resented by their grandparents. Negotiate, if you can't sweet talk them.
 
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Nikah is a personal and individual right whereby every sane adult is permitted to make his or her own decision as far as choosing the marriage partner is concerned.

An adult does not require the consent of his or her parents for the Nikah. Yes, if a woman marries in a lower class, her guardian reserves the right to terminate the Nikah. However, it is best to inform the parents and get their Du’aas for a successful and blissful marriage.

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In principle, if an adult boy and girl wishes to marry, they have the right to do so. They do not require the consent of their parents. If they marry, the marriage will be valid.
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It is not permissible for a Muslim woman to get married without the permission of her wali (guardian), rather it is essential for her to have a wali who will get her married, because the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “There is no marriage without a wali.” Narrated by Abu Dawood, 2085; classed as saheeh by Shaykh al-Albaani. And he (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Any woman who gets married without the permission of her wali, her marriage is invalid, her marriage is invalid, her marriage is invalid.” Narrated and classed as hasan by al-Tirmidhi, 1102; Abu Dawood, 2083; Ibn Maajah, 1879 – from the hadeeth of ‘Aa’ishah. Classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Irwa’ al-Ghaleel, 1840.
 
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It is not permissible for a Muslim woman to get married without the permission of her wali (guardian), rather it is essential for her to have a wali who will get her married, because the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “There is no marriage without a wali.” Narrated by Abu Dawood, 2085; classed as saheeh by Shaykh al-Albaani. And he (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Any woman who gets married without the permission of her wali, her marriage is invalid, her marriage is invalid, her marriage is invalid.” Narrated and classed as hasan by al-Tirmidhi, 1102; Abu Dawood, 2083; Ibn Maajah, 1879 – from the hadeeth of ‘Aa’ishah. Classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Irwa’ al-Ghaleel, 1840.
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is that the same with MEN
 
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An adult does not require the consent of his or her parents for the Nikah. Yes, if a woman marries in a lower class, her guardian reserves the right to terminate the Nikah. However, it is best to inform the parents and get their Du’aas for a successful and blissful marriage.
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I think everyone would agree it is better to marry with your parent's blessing, but can I ask what a lower class is in Islam and why it is wrong for a woman to marry into one?
 
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I think everyone would agree it is better to marry with your parent's blessing, but can I ask what a lower class is in Islam and why it is wrong for a woman to marry into one?
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i think this is a cultural thing nothing to do with islam because in islam we are all equal. i have never heard of this before in my whole life.

dont forget the prophet saw married khadija ra, n she was a very wealthy woman n the prophet saw wasnt wealthy.
 
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is that the same with women
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a woman cant marry without a wali, however a guy can but dont do it, there is nothing nice then having tranquility right from the start of tha marriage, its so much better wen u have the blessings and support of all the inlaws. these ppl will be in ur life forever, theyll be ur kids grandparents. marriage is not a place for hostility or amniosity.
 
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a woman cant marry without a wali, however a guy can but dont do it, there is nothing nice then having tranquility right from the start of tha marriage, its so much better wen u have the blessings and support of all the inlaws. these ppl will be in ur life forever, theyll be ur kids grandparents. marriage is not a place for hostility or amniosity.
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Sorry sis i meant to say is that the same for a man can he get married without his parents consent and he is aware that his parents are NOT happy with his marriage.
 
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Nikah is a personal and individual right whereby every sane adult is permitted to make his or her own decision as far as choosing the marriage partner is concerned.

An adult does not require the consent of his or her parents for the Nikah. Yes, if a woman marries in a lower class, her guardian reserves the right to terminate the Nikah. However, it is best to inform the parents and get their Du’aas for a successful and blissful marriage.

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I thought there was no class system in Islam? Even all races are considered equal, so where did the class system come from :?
 
Daffodil said:
dont forget the prophet saw married khadija ra, n she was a very wealthy woman n the prophet saw wasnt wealthy.
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But Muhammed came from a good clan, as did Khadija. He may have been poor, but his uncles were not. Nor were they undistinguished. It depends, I guess, on how your measure "equality". I read somewhere Abu Hanifa would not let a malwa marry a Arab woman for three generations, but I can't look it up because I can't remember where.
 

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