cant do it...just CANT :(

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...been so long...had feelings for someone...just cant seem to move on from them...too many memories... :exhausted too much love for them...it hurts...i dont know anymore...sometimes i get so angry all over again...:-[why...ive never asked allah for anything in worldly matters apart from that person...yet i cant get him...i dont know...this pain is going to kill me...if allah can do anything he wants then why cant i be with that person...:? why cant allah make him good for me and my deen and my aakhirah and let us get married, and make us a way to jannah for each other...i dont know...:cry:


 
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...been so long...had feelings for someone...just cant seem to move on from them...too many memories... :exhausted too much love for them...it hurts...i dont know anymore...sometimes i get so angry all over again...:-[why...ive never asked allah for anything in worldly matters apart from that person...yet i cant get him...i dont know...this pain is going to kill me...if allah can do anything he wants then why cant i be with that person...:? why cant allah make him good for me and my deen and my aakhirah and let us get married, and make us a way to jannah for each other...i dont know...:cry:
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U wer mde fo sum1 else, sum1 much beta den de one u finkin ov, u knw y? coz u iz so special babeh, and Allaah is de best of plannerz,

Ahh
 
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anonymous said:
why cant allah make him good for me and my deen and my aakhirah and let us get married, and make us a way to jannah for each other...i dont know...:cry:
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ok some serious advice, be patient untill you can make a move.


yep thats my advice, adn always make dua' that Allah guides him
 
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sis i knw how u feel. why cant u be with him by the way? have u spent time with this guy sis
 
anonymous said:
...been so long...had feelings for someone...just cant seem to move on from them...too many memories... :exhausted too much love for them...it hurts...i dont know anymore...sometimes i get so angry all over again...:-[why...ive never asked allah for anything in worldly matters apart from that person...yet i cant get him...i dont know...this pain is going to kill me...if allah can do anything he wants then why cant i be with that person...:? why cant allah make him good for me and my deen and my aakhirah and let us get married, and make us a way to jannah for each other...i dont know...:cry:
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Truly in the heart there is a void that can not be removed except with the company of Allah. ​

And in it there is a sadness that can not be removed except with the happiness of knowing Allah and being true to Him. ​

And in it there is an emptiness that can not be filled except with love for Him and by turning to Him and always remembering Him. ​

And if a person were given all of the world and what is in it, it would not fill this emptiness.​

-Ibn Qayyim al Jawziyya
 
AssalamuAlaykum

cant do it...just CANT :(
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Yeah you can hun, and you know it. Thats all I'm saying.

And a certain fish told you to give it 10 years (:D) I say give it 1 and you'll be fine :-[

WassalamuAlaykum
 
Question:
There are so many times I have seen religious people who are so at peace and content with the way their life is going. Why such disparity?


Ibn al-Qayyim has given a fitting answer.

Ibn al-Qayyim (may Allaah have mercy on him) said:

“When a person spends his entire day with no other concern but Allaah alone, Allaah, may He be glorified, will take care of all his needs and take care of all that is worrying him; He will empty his heart so that it will be filled only with love for Him, free his tongue so that it will speak only in remembrance of Him (dhikr) and cause all his faculties to work only in obedience to Him.


But if a person spends his entire day with no other concern but this world, Allaah will make him bear its distress, anxiety and pain; He will leave him to sort himself out, and cause his heart to be distracted from the love of Allaah towards the love of some created being, cause his tongue to speak only in remembering people instead of remembering Allaah, and cause him to use his talents and energy in obeying and serving them.

So he will strive hard, labouring like some work-animal, to serve something other than Allaah… Everyone who turns away from being a true slave of Allaah and obeying Him and loving Him will be burdened with servitude, love and obedience to some created being. Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning): ‘And whosoever turns away (blinds himself) from the remembrance of the Most Beneficent (Allaah), We appoint for him a shaytaan (devil) to be a qareen (intimate companion) to him.’ [al-Zukhruf 43:36].” [Al-Fawaa’id, p. 159]


It was narrated that Anas (may Allaah be pleased with him) said: The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said:

“Whoever is mainly concerned about the Hereafter, Allaah will make him feel independent of others and will make him focused and content, and his worldly affairs will fall into place. But whoever is mainly concerned with this world, Allaah will make him feel in constant need of others and will make him distracted and unfocused, and he will get nothing of this world except what is decreed for him.”

(Narrated by al-Tirmidhi, 2389; classed as saheeh by Shaykh al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Jaami’, 6510).

(Source: From another thread on the forum)
 
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JσℓιєFℓєυя;1001625 said:
AssalamuAlaykum



Yeah you can hun, and you know it. Thats all I'm saying.

And a certain fish told you to give it 10 years (:D) I say give it 1 and you'll be fine :-[

WassalamuAlaykum
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and if she dont feel better after that one?

i agree with the fish, 10 years certainly is better, she'll either get over him or get him or forget him


inshaAllaah
 
IbnAbdulHakim said:
and if she dont feel better after that one?

i agree with the fish, 10 years certainly is better, she'll either get over him or get him or forget him


inshaAllaah
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I was kiddin :|

10 years is good, but if you say as advice...'Give it 10 years'... you're going to do either one of two things...

Firstly you'll make the person lose hope...I mean 10 years? Anything could happen in that time, for a person feeling down, I really dont think they wanna know that they should bear with the feeling for another 10 years....coz ultimately, thats what you're saying.

Secondly what you're doing is telling them that there isnt any way for them to feel better....Argh the whole 10 years just sounds depressing.

And I think this calls for a: Meh!

WassalamuAlaykum
 
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^true, but perhaps people feel impatient because they feel 'stuck.' i.e there's the option of someone else offering their hand, but then they're in the predicament of not 'letting go' or not wanting to, etc...
 
^i know someone who married "someone else" divorced, adn married the person he/she initially wanted to, now they happy together.


as long as dua' is constantly made, Allaah will grant ease... even if after a long long time.
 
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mashaAllah...but 50 years...now thats loyalty on a whole new level:exhausted
wow!
 
- Serene - said:
This is real life, not bollywood.
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Its real....it happened (What the bro said) Coz I know it too. It does happen...

So I think all that is left to say is: We leave you in the care of Allah (swt), may He give you that which will be best for you in the aakhirah, and if this dude will be a means of you attaining Jannah, then I hope Allah (swt) gives him to you. Ameen. <-- thats at the thread-starter

WassalamuAlaykum
 

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