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Revert alYunani said:
There are sisters in this forum who are from western countries and they are very religious,why didnt you try here too? Make a thread,talk about yourself,maybe one is interested or know other people who might be interested..
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I was told it was not allowed. And I'm pretty sure the sisters wouldn't be interested.
 
Yrvhere? said:
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But how do these things work please? We just put our info and hope for smn to contact us? Lol i doubt a girl would contact a man without knowing anything about him except a few words, unless i write im rich and all.... How do they work pls? I wanna know if its worth making an insta for this...do we see their faces or not?
 
Revert alYunani said:
But how do these things work please? We just put our info and hope for smn to contact us? Lol i doubt a girl would contact a man without knowing anything about him except a few words, unless i write im rich and all.... How do they work pls? I wanna know if its worth making an insta for this...do we see their faces or not?
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I dont exactly know this cuz i havent used it. I just found out that people use the online sites a lot especially from west. In the subcontinent, it isnt used by the muslims but mostly by the non muslims. In west, it is difficult to find a pious woman cuz most women are non muslims and those that are muslims, they are influenced by feminism so there are like very "few" who are actually pious Alhamdulillah. So it becomes difficult to find that. This is why i shared otherwise i am of the opinion that the person should be met offline. This is why i first suggested the brother to seek offline means.
From what i saw, they just ask for ur profile data and some of them ask for pictures , some dont. And woman doesnt contact, her wali does. In west , there is less population of muslims as compared to kuffar so it becomes one of the reasons for delay in marriage. But where are u from? If u live in west, i guess u should try it.
 
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I had someone message them on my behalf. We will see where it goes. I did try offline...no luck

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Revert alYunani said:
How do you know?.Try and if nobody is interested then at least you tried.But if you dont try.
Who told you its not allowed? Dont we have marriage section?
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Do we have a marriage sections? I would like to see the sister's face though. Even though they have good personalities. I still would like some attraction to be there. How can we do that on a forum ???
 
Studentofdeed said:
I had someone message them on my behalf. We will see where it goes. I did try offline...no luck

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Do we have a marriage sections? I would like to see the sister's face though. Even though they have good personalities. I still would like some attraction to be there. How can we do that on a forum ???
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No sister face on forum lol.. No sane sister would put her pic on a forum

Well if it was me i would make a thread and see who is interested then pm them but ok in shaa Allah this for the best
 
No I know the picture thing, but I was saying how would it work? I do not feel comfortable DM either because I don't want to sin

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Ur making fun of me aren't you?
 
Yrvhere? said:
I dont exactly know this cuz i havent used it. I just found out that people use the online sites a lot especially from west. In the subcontinent, it isnt used by the muslims but mostly by the non muslims. In west, it is difficult to find a pious woman cuz most women are non muslims and those that are muslims, they are influenced by feminism so there are like very "few" who are actually pious Alhamdulillah. So it becomes difficult to find that. This is why i shared otherwise i am of the opinion that the person should be met offline. This is why i first suggested the brother to seek offline means.
From what i saw, they just ask for ur profile data and some of them ask for pictures , some dont. And woman doesnt contact, her wali does. In west , there is less population of muslims as compared to kuffar so it becomes one of the reasons for delay in marriage. But where are u from? If u live in west, i guess u should try it.
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Im in germany and yeah i have nobody to propose to cuz of the same reasons you mentioned.. I dont mind if she is in usa or uk or whatever i can go to her i dont mind.She wouldnt feel comfortable here.
Ill see in shaa Allah maybe i use it

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Studentofdeed said:
No I know the picture thing, but I was saying how would it work? I do not feel comfortable DM either because I don't want to sin

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Ur making fun of me aren't you?
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Relax im not making fun of you. I am saying what i would do., but if you are interested in a particular one and pm them through another then in shaa Allah its for the best thats what i am saying
 
Studentofdeed said:
Have u tried your own advice? Lol
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I tried twice and it didnt work because we didnt fit when it comes to religion. She was quranist and the other was very rich and wanted a very rich guy, got dissapointed that i am not a dubaian sheyk.So i wanna know smn very good before i do it again.But you try, who knows, as long as the niyah is good
 
Was it on here or ummah forums? Quranists are the people who follow the Quran only right? We're you able to see how they looked?

As for the girl who wanted a Dubai sheik and is running after money. She is a foolish. Pious men are more valuable than silly things like money
 
Studentofdeed said:
Was it on here or ummah forums? Quranists are the people who follow the Quran only right? We're you able to see how they looked?

As for the girl who wanted a Dubai sheik and is running after money. She is a foolish. Pious men are more valuable than silly things like money
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Yeah i dont care.She can be nur al ayn coming from. Jannah i wont marry a quranist. Quranist dont accept any hadith only Quran they are out of the question for me.

The dubaian one is the one who kinda agree then started oh well i want a dubaian oh i want one from here oh this oh that. Waste of time bro, here sisters are really nice from what i see, so if you want a pious muslim you have here
 
Revert alYunani said:
No sister face on forum lol.. No sane sister would put her pic on a forum

Well if it was me i would make a thread and see who is interested then pm them but ok in shaa Allah this for the best
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Lol I remember the last time someone did that, the thread ended up turning into gender wars
 
Assalamu alaykum, I think the reason why you may be having an extra hard time finding a spouse is because of the pandemic. I can't remember if I asked this already, have you tried genuine muslim matrimonial sites? There are a good few I know of that could help. How long have you been searching for

But there's also this subreddit I've noticed. It's called Muslimmarriages, people search on there and there are good muslims on there. You can also go to the brothers section subreddit and make a post about your troubles and ask for connections. If you meet a girl online you can ask her to dm you a picture after a bit and promise to delete after viewing it and you can show her your picture as well. You can also video chat with her and another one of her family members around if you two are long distance if she doesn't trust to send a pic

Quranists are the people who follow the Quran only right? We're you able to see how they looked?
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And please stay away from marrying one because their belief system will end up corrupting yours
 
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Walkum Salaam Sister. I have tried matching sites, the imam, even family. Nothing has been of avail. Allah knows best. Which subreddit is it? Is it on islamicboard? No of course yea I understand what you mean about the DM part.

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Il have to ask...problem is people may not feel comfortable doing it. I have asked in my community but they give excuses and avoid it. One person said I was too young...but im in 20s? Thank you again for your advice. May Allah bless and reward you! Ameen
 
Islami.Mu'mina said:
You can also video chat with her and another one of her family members around if you two are long distance if she doesn't trust to send a pi
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or they can enter in telegram,there is an option to send a pic for a few seconds,and you cant save it nor record it.If you do screen record you can capture a video call.I mean ofc no normal muslim would be such a maniac but in case they wanna be super sure.
 

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