cheating

[Ummu Sufyaan]

brothers and sisters.

i dont know if i would call it cheating, but i do agree with your husband.

 

[جوري]

thankyou for saying something nice to me....I know im being silly,,and its not too much for him to ask this of me when he gives me so much in return,,,,ive never thought Id have so much love in my life as I have since I met my husband

I didn't mean it to sound nice--I meant it from my heart...I wish you the very best insh'Allah...happiness, warmth..and above all mercy...

 

[syilla]

I think it is good to have a hubby that takes precaution before it is too late.

 

[nasima el ghazi]

yes im very lucky,,,,he is just doing his job

 

[islamirama]

Sister, If your husband doesn't like for you to be on the net, Islamically, you should liston to him, not anyone else. This shows his care n love to you, ( Alhamdulilah!) NOT jealousy, or anything else. He doesn't want anybody to talk or even think about you....( I think.... )

Good advice sis. We all have our opinions and many of us are too readily able to give them as if we are the experts in everything. At end of the day, it's these couple's marriage, relationship, and much more at stake. We can advise in light of Quran and sunnah and not merely give our opinions (which i see a lot in many forums). The sister can take the advice or not but should know that many here are single and not married nor qualified to professionally advice on marriage issues.

So what the sis says above carries weight, at the end it's betw. the couple and they must talk and communicate with each other openly to each an understanding in this partnership.

One more thing...please don't listen unnecessary replies, JUST make your husband happy, his happiness ultimately yours ....... InshaAllah

to be honest, in all, everyone in the forum is na mehram, and talking to na mehram is haram... we can not justify any of this if we are doing so... :-\

I would have to disagree with you on this one. We should be very careful to use the world "haraam" and "halaal" as only Allah has the authority to declare those things and unless we have read it in Islam, we can't be throwing those words around so lightly (which also lot of muslims do today).

Talking to non-mahram is not haraam nor against Islam. Islaam does not prohibit it but rather restricts it and provide guidelines with it. For example, talk to them (women) from behind a screen (barrier) so you don't look at them. Lower your gaze (both genders), have mahram present (girl side) or/and talk only when needed and out of necessity.

:salamext:

It is best that these kinds of questions be answered with actual text, Quraan and Sunnah, proofs. Rather than what everyone feels, or thinks. Because Islam isnt based on what people think or feel, It is based on what the actuality of the situation is , in accordance to Islam rules and laws.

Usually by people stating their view , it causes conflicts and arguments, really for no reason. If you have the authentic proofs in accordance to Quraan wa Sunnah, then khalas no one can refute that, but anyone can ( and normally will) refute your view, or opinon.

Just a reminder InshaaAllah.

Some advice from Sheikh Munajjid that can be applied to forums, Instant Messengers and other forms of tele-communications inshallah.

Advice to those who visit chat rooms

Men and women talking in chat rooms

Da’wah via private chat

Internet relationships