Choosing the Desired Companion

[rozeena]

Re: What to Look for in partner

2 b honest i dont know if its wrong islamically. But i dont think ppl shud b luked dwn on if rejecting sum1. cus at the end of the day that individual will be spending their life with that person.

 

[IbnAbdulHakim]

Re: What to Look for in partner

ok jazakAllah khair coz i know a bro who rejected a girl who was really good simply coz he felt nothing for her but now his sisters are going crazy on him coz they really liked the girl lol. he actually was about to say yes purely under pressure but i stopped him from doing that out of worry for his marriage...

now im wondering if i dun the right thing

jazakAllah khhiar for your answers

 

[rozeena]

Re: What to Look for in partner

i fink its wrong for his sisters to go crazy on him cuz den his guna obviosly feel bad that he didnt listen to his family. I personaly fink ppl shud luk at the personality and then the luks. the person doesnt exactly have 2 b all dat bt as long as they gt a gud personality and r nt a bad person either. n dey need 2 b able to communicate DATS A MAJOR FING! LOL.

ok jazakAllah khair coz i know a bro who rejected a girl who was really good simply coz he felt nothing for her but now his sisters are going crazy on him coz they really liked the girl lol. he actually was about to say yes purely under pressure but i stopped him from doing that out of worry for his marriage...

now im wondering if i dun the right thing

jazakAllah khhiar for your answers

 

[IbnAbdulHakim]

Re: What to Look for in partner

sis rozeena do sisters really not care about looks? :? my sister said many times before she doesnt care but i wonder if she means it lol...

 

[rozeena]

Re: What to Look for in partner

lol! well it depends on the individual really. i do care bout the luks but its nt a major fing if u knw wt i mean theres mayb sum gals who totaly dont care bowt luks and some gals that fink the guy has 2 b good lukin n da rest dnt mata.it depends. isyour sister very religiouse???

 

[HBot 5000]

Re: What to Look for in partner

Clearly the Hbot 5000 pressure chamber is having some effet on ya brain....



The only thing that needs to be thrown out the window is your notion of a so called 'wife' ....

What to look for in a partner? ...well if your Hbot 5000 a Brazilain lady who is a millionaire Delia smith type SPECIALISING IN SEA FOOD AND OWNS AN OCEAN, who looks like Niomi Cambell, likes DFS ( a sofa store)who doesnt want to be a to fuflil her natural right as a mother...keeps to herself and works so will therefore be away from him as much as possible giving hime his so called private space as others dont like HAVING A SO CALLED 'private space', wil spend hiS money on looking perfect (plastic surgery INCLUDED ) and might even encourage him to do it as she thinkS her beauty shoudl be matched..someone who thinks hes 'kept' Ahemmmm...someone who loves sci fi......:? ?ooohhh i get it..u want AN ALIEn WIFE!!!!hew

Azaif my comments on matrimonial threads such as this are to be taken rather lightly and no one should be offended by them...hehe..kay:

I am the matrimonial expert and i boast a 100% success rate (in not getting you you're dream partner)

You know Alien women? man that would be so sweet! get a green woman from orion 5 kay:

Right just because of you insolence i am reinstating my rules and going to give some more attributes one should look out for:

1. Someone who weighs no more than 10 stone. The slightest deviation will result in termination formely known as divorce.
2. When i get home from work she has my food, my bath, slippers & evening clothes ready.
3. Someone who does not go into private areas designated for males only - most likely going to be all of the house except the kitchen, bathroom and bedroom.
4. She must smell like sweet nectar all the time.
5. She must not invite any of her female friends round to talk to.
6. Someone who accepts one day off in every month to relax.
7. She must not go near my xbox 360.
8. She must not go near my high spec pc.
9. She must not go near my collection of dvd's especially the sci-fi. If she dares to defile them (especially my star trek & babylon 5 collection) she will be flogged and divorced quickly.
10. She must drive only to the shop and back.
11. When i am not with her she must await my return my thinking about me constantly.
12. She must cook the most wonderful sea food. If i ever get ill she will be divorced.
13. She must not want to have kids. My wife is for me to enjoy and no one else including ugly babies and ugly cats etc must have her affection.

more please ask....:thumbs_up

 

[ummAbdillah]

Re: What to Look for in partner

how much weight should we give to appearance when searching? seriously?

appearence is'nt everything but is very important that you're actualy attracted to your husband/wife.

 

[HBot 5000]

Re: What to Look for in partner

She must be beautiful! Mingers don't apply.

 

[HBot 5000]

Re: What to Look for in partner

sounds like all you sisters agree with me because i have not got an earful yet. :thumbs_up

^I win :muslimah:

 

[Aziaf]

Re: What to Look for in partner

She must be beautiful! Mingers don't apply.

......In your world Aliens are beautiful.wotever they look like. I wasnt being isolent just sarcy

sounds like all you sisters agree with me because i have not got an earful yet.

^I win

Its not a compitition.... Dont take our silence as our weekness, or assume youve won.we just recognise a lost case when we see one and let them be.

u dont wana get married n you have some disturbing preferences...so?
Get over it.

 

[HBot 5000]

Re: What to Look for in partner

......In your world Aliens are beautiful.wotever they look like. I wasnt being isolent just sarcy



Its not a compitition.... Dont take our silence as our weekness, or assume youve won.we just recognise a lost case when we see one and let them be.

u dont wana get married n you have some disturbing preferences...so?
Get over it.

I'm over it and your silence indicates you know i'm right! Azaif :muslimah: seriously go into the bathroom and check your weight for the sake of your future partner mg: :X

 

[iwuvaziaf]

Re: What to Look for in partner

She must be beautiful! Mingers don't apply.

Astaghfirullah! u might get caught out for that, whops!

sounds like all you sisters agree with me because i have not got an earful yet. :thumbs_up

^I win :muslimah:

u win? plzzzz! if u quite finish talkin and give others a chance to speak we might will..

gosh.. when u r online.. marriage sections shud be avoided.. Its good u r so involved in the marriage section and putting ur needs across coz maybe just maybe sumbody will be so deluded to marry u..

Ya Allah khair! i definitely am praying for u as i wud pray for all my brothers and sisters!

wsalam

 

[HBot 5000]

Re: What to Look for in partner

deluded to marry u..

Omg is their a chance? wait one more condition:

Her home planet must be rigel 5.

Would you say their is any chance now?

 

[iwuvaziaf]

Re: What to Look for in partner

Omg is their a chance? wait one more condition:

Her home planet must be rigel 5.

Would you say their is any chance now?

rigel 5:?

 

[iwuvaziaf]

Re: What to Look for in partner

I'm over it and your silence indicates you know i'm right! Azaif :muslimah: seriously go into the bathroom and check your weight for the sake of your future partner mg: :X

astaghfirullah! Allah karay isko bhains jaisay biwi milay!

i hope u dnt know urdu! yikes!

 

[HBot 5000]

Re: What to Look for in partner

astaghfirullah! Allah karay isko bhains jaisay biwi milay!

i hope u dnt know urdu! yikes!

Urdu hey 1 sec (my m8 is teaching me)

Allah karay tum ku mohta kawand (pati) mliay - hehe badmash

(English, Arabic, German, urdu, punjabi, guji you won't get away with hehe )

 

[Aziaf]

Re: What to Look for in partner

yes brothers please this was supposed to be serious to help us better ourselves and for us to go into marriage with an understanding. i hope it helps and please read carefullyt and think about each point.

may allah make us all pious muslims, may allah help all those with health/wealth issues, and may allah halp all muslims being picked on.

Ameeeennnnn..said Hbot 5000

 

[Muezzin]

Re: What to Look for in partner

People, this insulting/flirting I'm seeing going on will be deleted it if it carries on, and warnings issued.

 

[HBot 5000]

Re: What to Look for in partner

^lol flirting/insulting wabbit?

 

[IbnAbdulHakim]

Re: What to Look for in partner

lol! well it depends on the individual really. i do care bout the luks but its nt a major fing if u knw wt i mean theres mayb sum gals who totaly dont care bowt luks and some gals that fink the guy has 2 b good lukin n da rest dnt mata.it depends. isyour sister very religiouse???

Alhamdulillah she tries practise and avoids everything we know to be haram and wants a fully bearded brother etc etc.

so ye my guess is u cud call her someone trying to practise.


i guess girls and boys are totally different, subhanAllah.