congenital heart disease

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Bro/Sis, i understand that you have so many questions, fears.. but what the sisters have posted is correct, you have to put your trust in Allah SWT as he is the giver and taker of all things, he give's illnesses and provides cure. I cannot imagine what you must be going through but you have to be strong, seek solace in Allah SWT, wenever you raise your hands in dus pour out to Allah SWT, pour out your fears, weep and talk to Allah SWT, tell him all you feel and Allah SWT will help you and your child Inshaallah. Your child will be looking for you for comfort as they grow, if you are weak than how will that help them? As i suggested in my prev post you could join a GUCH forum wer they are parents who's children have CHD, mayb speaking to other parents mite help you and answer some of your questions.

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jazakallah sisters u have been a great help

alhamdulillah my son came out of hosiptal weeks ago shukr alhamdulillah he is welll as cud be no1 wud think hed had a heart op... its jus i am naturally a weak person and its stil al a bit 2 much 4 me to take in.. i wake up every mornin n i stil cant believ that my son has a heart op... i go to sleep at nyt n al i can see is images of him being poked n prodded everywer n then in ICU... Its sumthin that will always be on my mind 4 the rest of my life

I just dont know how im going to explain to him if he asks

how did ur parents expalin to u wat was wrong wid u?

did u ever question why u?

have u any bros/sisters hu have a heart problem?

pls answer sisters may Allah rewward u and bless u al wid a long healthy pious life Ameeeeen

sis pearl u only a bit younger then meimsad
 
Alhamdulillah im so grateful... ders many ppl hu have it ten tyms harder... i try to keep tellin myself dat to keep me goin...i have a frend hus little boy was born wid half a heart... subhnallah how she has managed 4 d past 4 yrs i shal never know... he has to have heart ops every so often to rebuild the other half of his heart... keep him in ya duas also...
 
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Thats good Mashallah that ur child is on the road to recovery, may Allah SWT help both of you through this journey, no1else in my fam have this problem, my parents jst told me as i was growing up, not in a bad way but they dint make a big deal out of it, no i have never questioned y me cuz its someting that i was brought up with and its a part of who i am as a person, Inshaallah your child will think along these lines as they grow up. I understand that all you can pictre is what you child has had to go through, i had my chekups till i was about 15, recently started again, i cant remember how often ii used to go, sorry. Hope all this is of help to you and Inshaallah i pray to Allah SWT to give both you and your child the strength.

Take Care

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oh n 1 more thing how often did u have 2 go 4 chek ups? n do u stil go sisters??
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you have to go with your child for the 'well child visits' where they receive vaccination and usually they'll let you know there, it is best to keep your child's pediatrician on top of history so that your baby receives the best care...
Everyone should visit their physician yearly regardless of whether or not they have a condition that needs attention.

I have problems now that I didn't have last year and I wouldn't have learned about them had I not gone for a checkup.. It is good to have maintenance for your health is a gift from Allah swt..

I'll keep your little one in my du3a insha'Allah

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Thats good Mashallah that ur child is on the road to recovery, may Allah SWT help both of you through this journey

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mashallah he is absolutely fine alhamdulillah u shud c him lafin away subhanallah wat a gift :D Ameen to al ya duas sisters pls keep my son in your duas as i shall u inshallah azwajal
 
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first of all you are not bugging me im glad to be of help, it helps me to speak to some1 aswell, hope your child is doing well and Inshaallah i will keep you both in my duas, im in the middle, its my eldest bro den me den my youngest bro, so as you can imagine being the onley girl aswell it was harder for my parents. Feel free to ask anything you want Inshaallah we will try and help you.

Take care

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awww

sis u have been fantastic thank u so much may Allah bless u with a long and healthy life inshaAllah and bless you with healthy pious children Ameen

im a bit upset 2day . went to baby clinic to get my babys immunisations and the nurse refused to do then until he was seen by a cardiologist.. i just want my baby to be treated like a normal child mashaAllah he is absolutely fine now

and seeing al those babies al absolutely fine is jus so hard

May Allah give me strength and patience
 
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Ameen to your duas, i cant imagine how it must be like for you, whatever treatment your child will have in the future will be dealt with carefully due to his medical condition. I too have to have antibiotics b4 any treatments at the dentist, its to help your child and they are looking out for his welfare. Inshallah things will get better in time, i think you frst need time to get used to it and Inshaallh once you watch your child growing it will make it easier for you.

Take care.

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thanks alot sis uv bin a star

U know wat sis iv cum to realIse after raeding al sorts of stories onlien about heart disease that what my son has is NOTHING as I was told time and time again by many of the staff at LGI. Alhamdulillah im so grateful for what Allah swt has given me. My baby brings me so much joy and happiness I cannot imagine life without him. InshaAllah he will have a normal life as ppl wid this condition do. I request everyone raeding this to please keep my son in their duas. Jazakallah.

Ps sis if u have an email addy leave it me plz... I was a very active memeber of thsi forum a loooong tym ago but i no longer have an account here so i cant PM ya. Thanks sis xxxx
 
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Im glad ur feeling a lot better, Inshaallah it wil get better with time, dnt be scared to search for info, it better for you the more you find out the more you will be able to help your child Inshaallah in the future. id luv to leave you my email add the only thing is i dnt want all to see it, i cant PM you as your dwn as anonymous. Here for you wenveva u nd to chat. If you dnt mnd me asking, hw old is ur little one?

Take care

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Ameen to all the duas... May Allah give us strength physically and emotionally for the sake of Allah swt :)
 
Life is so rough, isn't it?

I wish you all the best with your problems. Thank your dear merciful creator that you are still alive to this day.
 
life isnt rough its a test :)

Allah swt does things 4 a reason. if this makes me a better muslim and a better mum then so be it

if any1 has any1 to add regardin CHD please post. jazakallah xxx
 
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Sorry jst bin busy, hpe u n ur son are wll, jst remembred did u go n see a cardiologist RE injection ur son was supposed to have? hpe ur son is doin well, hw u feeling? ru finding things easier?

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