congragulations!!!

[A(SMILE ITS ME)]

salam,
Q WHEN A CHILD/ADULT DOES WELL WHO IS CONGRATULATED?
MOTHER / FATHER /ADULT
Q IF THE SAME PERSON DOSN'T DO WELL?
WHOES TOO BLAME?

 

[IbnAbdulHakim]

all get congratulated and all get blamed


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[A(SMILE ITS ME)]

NO
I HAVE TO DISAGREE
if ts something good usually the dad
not too good the mother

 

[IbnAbdulHakim]

your talkin about what people do and not what SHOULD be done, im sry i misunderstood.
And im not sure what happens in society regarding this.

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[Z]

Salaam.

'NO I HAVE TO DISAGREE if ts something good usually the dad not too good the mother'

And the reason?

 

[A(SMILE ITS ME)]

in society at large,
people always expect the mothers to teach, love,guidance.
so if anything goes wrong.
the finger is usually pointed at her

 

[Sister_6038]

i dont think you can really say its the dad...mom...or whoever for definite..as the family situations and upbringings of many varies immensely so...

 

[A(SMILE ITS ME)]

upbringing?>
The pointing of the finger is too who?
who guides us?
who takes responsiblilty?

 

[IbnAbdulHakim]

upbringing?>
The pointing of the finger is too who?
who guides us?
who takes responsiblilty?

I gess that depends really.. on the family and the people. Its diff for sum


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