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Re: Dealing with mental torment
Assalamu Alaikum
Mashallah, that was great advice..couldnt have said any better, dont put urself down when giving someone advice, cuz even the littlest information can help someone
Bro my_name_islam_ i think you should continue to pray no matter what, shaytan may be in your head trying to make you repent. Another note is to let go of the past, I know that it can be very hard sometimes, but Allah grants a person the next second for a reason, to repent, turn their heels from sins and walk into deeds. You have been given many seconds for you to turn ur life back together.
Keep in thikr and dua...everytime you see something that pleases you say mashallah, alhemdulilah, subhanallah..if you see something you dislike say astughfirallah, this will help you remember that Allah is in every sign of life and that He is Great.
Here is something that I've always liked:
The Prophet (pbuh) told us, "The Shaytaan sits in the path (of every goodness) that the son of Adam (may try to take). He sat in front of him when he took the path to Islam and told him, 'how could you leave the religion of your fathers and your fore-fathers?' But he disobeyed him and became Muslim. Then Shaytaan sat in front of him in his path to Hijrah and said, 'How could you leave your land and your sky?' But he disobeyed him and migrated (from Makkah). Then he sat in front of him in his path of Jihaad and said, 'Why should you do Jihad? It will only exhaust your wealth and body. You'll be killed, your wife will marry someone else, and your wealth will be divided (to others).' But he disobeyed him and went for Jihad." The Prophet (pbuh) then said, "Whoever does this, it is a duty upon Allah that He shall enter him into Jannah!"
The shaytan sat infront of the Rasul (peace and blessings be upon him) someone who was verily sinless, and he will continue to sit in our paths until Allah has demolished him from our souls. Yet this was an example that whoever you are sinless or sinful, you will always find troubles your way..but keep Allah as your goal so that you may reach him.
I dont know what kind of personality you have or anything like that, but sometimes when i am troubled, i like to sit alone with no one around me so that i may fix my thoughts and purify my mind even cry if i have to...also it might help to think of others that have been through something that you have been through so that you can take stay away from the mistakes they might have done..u know like learning from others mistakes rather than your own.
fi aman Allah
w'salaam
Assalamu Alaikum
I don't know if this will help or not. I don't have much knowledge of the Muslim religion even though I am Muslim. I can only give you advice based on my personal experiences (yet still, it might not be good advice).
My advice is for you to seek forgiveness from Allah. Maybe the reason why you feel compelled to reject Allah is because you feel guilty about “losing your Iman” and so you feel like you don’t deserve to pray to Allah. If that is the case then what I think you should do is ask for forgiveness and then try to make up for it by doing good to others. Often times I feel like I am in such great debt to Allah for all that he has done for me and there is no way for me to pay him back. So instead, I try to be good to other people, with hopes that this will please Allah (I always believed that Allah would want to see good things happen to his servants). And so that is what I would do everytime I feel guilty for something I have done and feel like I need to make it up to Allah, I would think of a way to improve myself and help those around me and do my best to accomplish it. Maybe you doing the same thing might help.
A quote that gets me through hard times is “While Allah exists (and he always shall), there will always be hope.” I can’t remember where I got the quote from.
I don’t know if this advice helps your or not, I hope it will.
Mashallah, that was great advice..couldnt have said any better, dont put urself down when giving someone advice, cuz even the littlest information can help someone

Bro my_name_islam_ i think you should continue to pray no matter what, shaytan may be in your head trying to make you repent. Another note is to let go of the past, I know that it can be very hard sometimes, but Allah grants a person the next second for a reason, to repent, turn their heels from sins and walk into deeds. You have been given many seconds for you to turn ur life back together.
Keep in thikr and dua...everytime you see something that pleases you say mashallah, alhemdulilah, subhanallah..if you see something you dislike say astughfirallah, this will help you remember that Allah is in every sign of life and that He is Great.
Here is something that I've always liked:
The Prophet (pbuh) told us, "The Shaytaan sits in the path (of every goodness) that the son of Adam (may try to take). He sat in front of him when he took the path to Islam and told him, 'how could you leave the religion of your fathers and your fore-fathers?' But he disobeyed him and became Muslim. Then Shaytaan sat in front of him in his path to Hijrah and said, 'How could you leave your land and your sky?' But he disobeyed him and migrated (from Makkah). Then he sat in front of him in his path of Jihaad and said, 'Why should you do Jihad? It will only exhaust your wealth and body. You'll be killed, your wife will marry someone else, and your wealth will be divided (to others).' But he disobeyed him and went for Jihad." The Prophet (pbuh) then said, "Whoever does this, it is a duty upon Allah that He shall enter him into Jannah!"
The shaytan sat infront of the Rasul (peace and blessings be upon him) someone who was verily sinless, and he will continue to sit in our paths until Allah has demolished him from our souls. Yet this was an example that whoever you are sinless or sinful, you will always find troubles your way..but keep Allah as your goal so that you may reach him.
I dont know what kind of personality you have or anything like that, but sometimes when i am troubled, i like to sit alone with no one around me so that i may fix my thoughts and purify my mind even cry if i have to...also it might help to think of others that have been through something that you have been through so that you can take stay away from the mistakes they might have done..u know like learning from others mistakes rather than your own.
fi aman Allah
w'salaam