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sis, isn't he supposed to talk to someone who is your mahram? your father or brother? instead of stopping you and start talking to u just like that?
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innit!?

sis just make du'aa inshaa'Allaah that Allaah gives you whatever is best for you, and if deep down you really like this bro make isitkhaarah.
But gotta say nice one!! I'm glad you stood your ground maashaa'Allaah, i honestly dislike it when people think they can try to sweet talk u get u to agree and then laaaaaaaaaaater if they're still bothered they go to your parents UFF :raging:
miskeenah ur friend n all, may Allaah give you two whatever is best for you!

wassalaamu alaykum
 
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and if deep down you really like this bro make isitkhaarah.
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brother Abdul Raheem Green gave a very good explanation about the "love".
He said that when you see a person and you say "ohhh I love/like him sooo much", it's not love, that is just passion. But love is something that during the life with that person that u live, as u get older, the passion is gone, and the love starts to show up, so you can see the plain love. So love is something that is developed , not something that u see the person and "oh I like him".

so my advise would be, if you that think that guy is a good man, and pious, and matches you, so you can live with him, then yeah you could do something, but if he doesn't match with u, but u just have this thing "oh but I love him", then remember that the passion will be gone very quickly, and the pure love will be left between u and him.

there is a saying in my country that says : "The beauty is one sunday and two jumma's".

i'm not saying that you shouldn't look at someone for beauty, of course, it's is a very important thing, but not leave everything behind, and concentrate 100% in beauty (which makes u fall in "love"), and who knows what type of person is the man you're looking for. so take in consideration all of the things, if you think he matches u, than try to do something, but if not, then leave it.
Allah knows what is the best for u.
 
what da **** ....oh okay all da best sis...allah knows what's best for you...

Have faith in Allah he is the only one who will fulfill your dreams
 
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GOOD RIDDANCE TO BAD RUBBISH LUV
if i was u tho id punch his lights out b4 buryin him alive the stupid **** **** **** ****** *********8
 
rubbish belongs in the bin....crunch it up and throw it away dats my motto :D :thumbs_up
 
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i hope allah makes it easy for u. all i can say is please keep prayin and make sincere dua.. so sincere that ur cryin so much that ur flooding the place. pray istikhara salah ,it m8 help, i cant speak from experience,
alhamdulliah alot of the advice said on here is useful.. please do not go to his house, be strong... he has knows he has made a big mistake, believe me and he will be repenting , all u need is Allah, he really is testing u at the moment. Have Sabr, may allah give you it inshallah. Only Allah will tell u if he is the one, whether its real love or just passion!
May allah do best for you inshallah
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I told my family that he has been bugging me and they have gone to talk to his family...so he stays away from me......unless...
 
Forget the geeza, dont know why u even bothering still talking to him. someone does that to you. i wouldnt even wanna see their face.
 
Salamualikum.
WWWhats going on these gender thingamajig's are annoying and confusing!
Ma'assalama
 
hey sis can i just say that u shud b glad u found out wt his lyk before it gt any further
 
no she means me..those who reply my thread please dont post anonymously you confuse people :)
The stupid guy told my parents he wants to marry me..thats why he has been harrassing me lately :raging:
 
salamualikum.,
Get married? If not am sure if you tell ya parents you don't want to they will understand

YOU KNOW DO DUA'AH SIS

ma'assalama
 
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