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[Umar001]

Come to an agreement.

It is not that easy, it is not a matter of disagreement by choice. It is a matter of not being able to, you know how much fustration that can create?

 

[crayon]

Come to an agreement.

Why not just marry someone you're compatible with in the first place?:?

 

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:salamext:

Ohmydayz man, all am saying is that this thread should be moved to the brothers section because such issues should not openly be discussed. (what is the point of having mods that dont even do their work) :-\

 

[Malaikah]

Relax, sister, the post isn't that indecent...

 

[Umar001]

Wa Alaykum Salam Wa Rahmatullahi Wa Barakatuh,

I was just saying that having common ground in cultural issues is an important thing.

 

[Souljette]

I think everyone whose on this forum are grown enough and if they aren't their attention span won't really drag along for 3 pages lolz..specially people who live in the states, UK and Canada , Dubai around dere..already know about the human body ..they learn it in school

 

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:salamext:


i think its gettin alot of criticism, which is something good alhamdulillah in some ways, but showing that i wasn't totally accurate in my explanations which can be something bad maybe..


in the article, i spoke in a general sense.. wa Allahu a'lam, i know there are other factors aswell which affect this kind of stuff, but i know that it isn't permissible for a woman or guy to touch each other before marriage [which the study was based on], so i had to try to explain other factors which may have been affected by high testosterone/high oestrogen levels - so the people could understand that compatibility is needed - since some people can be harmed if there isn't any compatibility.

i couldn't go into deep details about how there are differences to the norms with different people, since that would take ages to explain - since people are different, so i had to go around a general rule or pattern, and since the article was targetting late teens or people who were curious about something related to the topic - i had to be basic, while using some terminology which they were used to (yeah they are, they hear it all the time.)


i'm sorry if anyone got offended by it, and insha Allah i'll take the criticism into account in future articles if Allah wills for me to make something else. mods can move it if they think its fitnah or anythin insha Allah.



wa Allahu a'lam.

 

[Tania]

I don't want to loose my subscription to the thread, so please don't move it. Thank you

 

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[Umar001]

:salamext:


i think its gettin alot of criticism, which is something good alhamdulillah in some ways, but showing that i wasn't totally accurate in my explanations which can be something bad maybe..

Wa Alaykum Salam Wa Rahmatullahi Wa barakatuh,

Not getting that much critisism, and it doesnt neccesarily show you didnt explainn properly, it could be that the people that didnt understand are just not that bright in this part of life. :statisfie

 

[sevgi]

hehe cool article..write that urself bro?

some bits were like..what i she sayn..so i didnt get to the very end..skimmed it..forgive me.

bt its really cool to read a contemporary and scientific explanation into the mind of the woman...so to speak.

major note: women are confused freaks.

we are..i swear.

ignore us...and u will lead a happy life. bt wen u find one of us who is special...who stands out..grab her!!!so to speak....

as for all the fuss happening in this thread..i dno wats happening...bt im sure there is no need for it...

women just dno what they want...uve done a good job trying to understand and explain...

 

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:salamext:


i posted this on another site too, and i got alot of dif responses.. yeah alot of people got confused by it - due to the different content within the article.. but i purposelly did it like that lol, cuz it makes the people go over it twice to really understand it. Allahu a'lam

 

[Nσσя'υℓ Jαииαн]

Umm maybe I'm learning it too much in class, that it didnt bother me or....I wasnt thinking that shameful kinda way....

I jus took it like science. My bad :X

I think everyone whose on this forum are grown enough and if they aren't their attention span won't really drag along for 3 pages lolz..specially people who live in the states, UK and Canada , Dubai around dere..already know about the human body ..they learn it in school

My thoughts exactly...

 

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:salamext:

^ As usual, my opinions don't count. Allow dis, am out

Assalamu Alaikum.

 

[Nσσя'υℓ Jαииαн]

Lol chillax sis :-[ No one said it didnt count....gosh. All opinion s count... It's called discussion my precious lol >.<

 

[Al-Zaara]

^ Exactly.

I was told about stuff like this before I even filled 9 years, at school. This article is almost too nice in my opinion. No need to move it, if children come across it they'll probably not even stay here for long. These days I'm sure, children who learn about this, will find the article "too nice" or boring.

 

[sevgi]

umm...

i dnt see how this is abt the 'human body'..

its more feminine psyche..

meh..

and ummm zara??? what happened to ur modhod???

 

[Al-Zaara]

umm...

i dnt see how this is abt the 'human body'..

its more feminine psyche..

meh..

and ummm zara??? what happened to ur modhod???

You're right.. It actually is more like feminine psyche!

P.S. I left my position light-years ago! :-[ You've been away.. imsad

 

[Souljette]

female psyche is the word lolz

 

[IbnAbdulHakim]

After reading this I'm totally confused.

me too lolll



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