
I pray to Allah that InshaAllah your situation is eased by now and things have worked out favourably for you Ameen.................
However honey one thing i will say to you is PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE do not let your family bully you, or sweet talk you into this marraige. It will not work because you have already not accepted him. You will just end up resenting him and your family.
What will happen when the marraige does not work then you have the izzat behsti thing to face too..................
Allah forgive me if i have given the wrong advice, because i do not know the full situation. I have seen this thing in my life so many times and repeatdly ask myself the same question. When will our parents learn.
Have saburand make as much dua as you can pray that Allah shows you and guides you to do the right thing. Ameen.
