Thanks for your reply.

Looks like we'll be going all over circles again, but yeah thats upto you. If i find anything relevant - i'll paste an argument from a previous post while clarifiying things which may not have been clear earlier on, inshaa Allaah [God willing.]
cali dude said:
First let's see what the ultimate truth is. Ultimate Truth is nothing but God Himself. In form of right and wrong, the ultimate truth is His law. How do we know that a Muslim could never be believer or followers of ultimate truth?
Yes God is the ultimate truth, and the truth is His law, all other ways of life which oppose God's law are wrong - agreed.
We know that killing someone, unless for self-defense or to protect the helpless, is wrong. But you guys do believe in killing for other reasons than self-defense or to protect the helpless, e.g. killing for leaving Islam
The islamic state may apply the punishment of death upon the apostate who declares his/her apostasy public. If they don't declare it public - they don't be killed.

If they don't agree with the states laws then they can leave and go elsewhere. Nothing wrong with that.
and some even believe in killing a non-Muslim calling them "Kafir".
..since when does this come into anything? If it's against islaam, doesn't mean what these people do is the right thing:
Let there be no compulsion in religion: Truth stands out clear from Error: whoever rejects evil and believes in Allah hath grasped the most trustworthy hand-hold, that never breaks. And Allah heareth and knoweth all things. [Qur'an 2:256]
Other reason is that there is no room for hatred in spirituality and some of you actually believe that God hates and not only that you have reasons to hate homosexuals because according to your scriptures, it's wrong.
If God doesn't like a certain act, the same way God doesn't like the act of rape or fornication - then if God has forbidden homosexuality (which is also backed up with proofs from the jews and christians) - then who's to say that it's not wrong?
Remember you said that God is the truth and His law is the truth? Well we've got quite alot of backup from people of the earlier scriptures who agree with this.
Yes you could say that well even though it has been a practice to kill someone who leaves in Islam but we don't do it. But don't think even believing something that is wrong is a sin in itself?
God's message defines what's wrong and right, and i've stated earlier that the rule for apostasy is if it goes public. Why? Because it becomes a danger to others who are weaker or new to the faith. So if this person doesn't declare it publicly, their still safe - and if they do - then they're going against the rules of the state, so their liable to punishment - the same way anyone is liable to punishment if they go against the laws of that state.
A Sikh is none of this. Since we are not the level to realize the ultimate truth about God, we humans can only see what makes better sense. Let me ask you this. Does it make better sense to have no vice at all or does it make better sense to have lust and marry 3-4 women if you have lust for them and if you still have lust for someone else, you have no solution for it?
Well here we go again, since you guys cant love your wife or have any desire for her anyway - which is part of mans natural desires, then i feel that this is more wrong than to actually get married to women if you can deal fairly and justly between them.
It's much better than leaving many women in society without husbands and allowing them to be sex tools right? If you don't agree with that - then just look where you live and see the media.
There are other wrongdoings among Muslims today and they are doing them only because somehow they think Islam allows it.
Wow? there are wrong doings amongst sikhis too, and i'll tell you that there are alot more practising muslims who actually control their desires than 'next level sikhis.'
Once again, marriageability isn't determined by sexuality only but also maturity and ability to take care of family. Maybe you could justify to yourself that she wouldn't have to take care of children and the husband could find servants for her. But children still need the mother more than anybody else.
She can lookafter them if she wishes, and i've already shown you that she doesn't have to do much in the household anyway, praise be to Allaah.
Also when I asked if you would allow your daughter to marry someone older than you and the answer was that it was "society's norm" anymore. As you see, even you learn something from this society that you didn't learn from Islam.
That's because islaam actually has that freedom praise be to Allaah. So if its the law not to get married at the age of 12 in a specific country - then we don't need to do that do we.

Whereas in africa it might be the norms to get married in the early teens, so that's allowed too. Theres no contradiction at all.
We have already discussed this. Someone who ends with children gets appropriate alimony in this society.
So alimony and a little bit of cash is okay? And the spouses feelings don't matter? The time they've spent, and their past can simply be forgotten by just a little bit of cash? So much justice.
Just think about it. If you had no lust, you couldn't do anything sexually to harm anybody
Well if you have lust and you marry, then that actually controls your lust in the permissible way - not marrying at all actually increases the lust and makes one more likely to perform acts of indecency. And you've stated many times before - its only a minority of people who can actually reach that level.
and if you had no anger, you couldn't physically harm anybody or spiritually harm yourself.
Anger is an emotion created by God, we control it in the right ways.
Prophet Mohammad (Peace be upon him) said:
"A strong person is not the person who throws his adversaries to the ground. A strong person is the one who contains himself when he is angry".
If you didn't have greed, you wouldn't steel. If you didn't have any worldly attachment, you wouldn't have any greed in this world and of course in spiritual world
"And eat up not one another's property unjustly, nor give bribery to the rulers that you may knowingly eat up a part of the property of others sinfully."Qur'an (2:18)
, it releases us from all bonds with people and helps us uniting with God. If you had no ego, you would be humble and wouldn't be hurting people's feelings.
The Messenger of Allaah (peace be upon him) said:
"The muslim is he from whose tongue and hand a Muslim is safe, and the muhajir [emigrator] he who gives up what Allah has prohibited for him ". (Bukhari, Muslim )