Divorce on the horizon

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if the marrage has broken down and you are not able to see your daughter then ofcourse as mentioned before get a good solicitor- im not sure about custody since family courts favour the mother in this aspect unless she is a addict abusive etc- it aslo depends on the age of your daughter- if she is too young i.e under 5 i think the caffcass will not speak with the daughter but if she is over this age cafcass will definatley speak with your daughter and see how she feels-

cafcass are like social workers who deal with families who have disputes in court.
 
thanks sister for your encouraging words.

i have been doing ishtikara since 4 days and my heart is leaning towards divorce now.

i am from united states
 
markislam said:
thanks sister for your encouraging words.

i have been doing ishtikara since 4 days and my heart is leaning towards divorce now.

i am from united states
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Asalaamu Alaikum Wr Wb, have you spoken to any knowledgable and experienced scholars about your issues and the next steps that you should take?
 
markislam said:
thanks sister for your encouraging words.

i have been doing ishtikara since 4 days and my heart is leaning towards divorce now.

i am from united states
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ya but you should not take advice from anybody. a scholar would be better for this situation. they know about whats acceptable in islam and what is not acceptable and tell you what way to go about your situation as they would deal will loads of cases like yours. divorce is halal theres no doubt about that but it should be last option taken if all else fails.
 
asslam alaikum- i suppose if your in US it wouldnt be worth calling this particular masjid i turn to- perhaps there is one close by to yourself? sometimes i know its hard- we dont want the people at our own masjids to know whats going on in our persoanl lives- maybe you should find one you dont attend but at the same time you know they are part of shariah council- i dont know if you have that in U.S.

if your heart is going towards divorce then it means this is not the women for you- she is somewhere else. therefore this marrage had to come to an end- but also there was a purpose for this- maybe you had to learn something from her vice versa- Rab knows-
but the purpose is now fulfilled.

dont think hat this is the end- this si the begginging- the search for a better companion- maybe the one whom you are to spend ytour whole life with here on the duniya! so keep smiling and dont be sad-
asslam alaikum
 
Thanks for the encouraging words sister desert winds

yes we did learn a lot from each other during our marriage together.
 

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