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I don't know how to keep this short, but I had this argument with a fellow Muslim today which turned weird from a peaceful talk about Islam. I, literally, had an argument, and I regret every bit of it.
Well, the gist of it is it actually started with a difference of opinion about Islamic attire. I was putting forward the claim that there are six parameters mentioned in the hadith, and those being:
- The clothes shouldn't resemble the opposite sex.
- The clothes shouldn't be transparent enough to see through.
- The clothes shouldn't be so tight that they reveal the physique of the person wearing it.
- It shouldn't contain any symbols or ideologies of non-Muslim faiths.
- The extent of the clothes covering the body; for men, from navel to knees; and for women, the entire body except the face and hands upto the wrist. Some scholars propose that even the face should also be covered.
- It should not be so flashy that it attracts the opposite sex.
According to him, imitating the Prophet (PBUH) is more important than any criteria whatsoever. I was saying we have no clear evidence what they used to wear during his time, and that clothes are more a matter of region than religion, and as long as they are in accordance with the above mentioned 6 factors then they shouldn't be a problem. That was one disagreement.
Then I said I believe so because I've heard Zakir Naik himself say that. He said he doesn't like Zakir Naik, and his preaching in "western" attire, and him wasting time with non-Muslims. He said he didn't need to waste time with learning the other religions, he should have focused more on Muslims etc etc. I said his attire, his knowledge of other religions is all because he wants to connect with his "western" audience because he preaches in English, and also let his listeners know that he knows their religion and chooses Islam over them all because of such and such reasons. He uses logic in dawah and that is why so many people respect him.
Then he said that he doesn't believe in all this "logic" stuff, because all you need is Allah to bring them to Islam. It all went silly after that and I said to him that I embraced Islam practically in 2007 because Islam made sense to me (I'm a born Muslim, but started practicing only in 2007). He said you're self contradicting because faith doesn't need to make sense to you for you to believe in it; you just believe in it. I said to him that applies to non-Muslims, not to Muslims because the specialty of Islam is that it is a totally logical faith. There is hardly anything in it that is just a random commandment. Rather, every aspect of Islam has a lot of wisdom behind it.
It became uselessly vehement after that. Alhamdulillah, both of us remained within our limits but we could sense each other's anger. imsad
I know his stance is valid that all you need is Allah. I can't say that he is wrong, but the fallout of this argument left me thinking if everyone thinks that they are Muslims because it "appeals" to them, or are they just Muslims with blind faith in Allah and His Messenger (PBUH)? I understand that being Muslim you need to have utter faith in both Allah and His Rasool :saws1:, but is that the only reason for your devotion. In other words, are you a Muslim because it makes sense to you or you're just Muslim with little to no regard for logic and reasoning?