Does this sound romantic to you?

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Huzaifah ibn Adam said:
You'll have to ask that to a Christian.
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Is dodging the question something a good Muslim would do? It seems to me that sin is sin, especially among the Three Faiths.

Again: Am I doing something worthwhile or am I doing something that could lead to sin?
 
jabeady said:
Is dodging the question something a good Muslim would do? It seems to me that sin is sin, especially among the Three Faiths.

Again: Am I doing something worthwhile or am I doing something that could lead to sin?
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It's like you have a knife in your hand, which you are studying... eventually you will decided what to do with it, kill someone? Or carve wood? or anything in between.

As a Muslim, I cannot judge you or anyone for that matter - and you may serve as a witness against yourself, but in Islam we still require 4 witnesses extra to what you do.

Otherwise - it's just your word, against yourself - and that could mean you have mental issues - not that I am implying such, but in such a theoretical situation, we can entertain possibilities.

:)

Scimi
 
But what if the victim bears witness against himself 4 times? Swearing by Allah?

I learnt that if the victim bears witness against himself 4 times - that is sufficient.
 
Serinity said:
In Islam, afaik, fantasising about sex is haram.

If supressed they usually end up in dreams.

In Islam one should either marry or fast. Besides intercourse, one may also need emotional stuff.

I suppress them, and I am fine. They do not spill off in the real world to me. I do admit I have sometimes uncontrollable "jits" but that is only when I am half conscious. Otherwise I am good at suppressing. :D

I disagree, the more you focus on it, the bigger it becomes. Seriously, society has made marrying an achievement.

One can just stop focusing on one's desire and stuff.

Islam discourages being celibate. On the other hand, it encourages marrying ASAP, and have ones desires released in a halal (permissible) way. AFAIK.

Allahu alam.
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lol, bro, im not fantasizing about sex, that would be masturbation. i fantasize about being married and cuddling and kissing and saying sweet, romantic things (again, i do this while fantasizing about being married) but perhaps cuddling will lead to masturbation. brother huzaifah ibn adam i still dont know how to change my name, would you believe it? :) :D
 
may Allah make everything easy for you
try to be far for this things as the brothers and sisters said because if it's hard to stop now ... it will be harder to stop later
let all this things be in halal way
and Allah will put happiness and blessings in your life
make your self busy with the things you like
do voluntary work and the things you like.
save your time , now .... and this will help you in the future with your family to be a good Muslim husband and father
but this kind of relationship will be hard before marriage because you will wast your time and break your heart and your Iman
especially in this hard time .
pray and fast and try to make your self busy and Allah will bring the best wife for you
and if this girl is the best one for you ... Allah will save her and treat her for you
save your Iman, your time and your feelings till the best time.. as you can, and Allah will be with you, with help .. protecting and keeping in the right path
may Allah make it easy for you
amen !!
 
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