Eerie Personality and Confidence Issues

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Exactly, thank you sister MuslimInshaAllah,

The brother clearly doesn't know the difference between black magic and istikhara - there is a world of difference.

Scimi
 
keep accusing him. let me share the link l. repent bro before all your amaals are wasted.
 
by the way I have always considered it unislic to talk to any girl despite co-ed let alone go for a love marriage. All the responsibility of selecting a girl is with my mother. However the above link shows one way of doing a istikaraha/
 
Brother, you do not even go to a masjid, cannot even make yourself do salaah and somehow you've become an expert in istikhara? although you do not do istikhara yourself and instead ask others to do it on your behalf? :D

grow a brain akhi.

You're a victim of black magic... the sooner you realise this, the sooner you can do something about it.

Now, you said you intended to get Ruqya done... my advise is to do it, and the results will confirm what I suspect.

Scimi
 
You can say anything to me bro, but calling a religious person a black magician is not right. I am no expert in Istikharah or religion bit I do know that accusing someone is wrong. I may or may not be a vctim of Black Magic (No signs I feel) but do yu think that black magic is stronger than the Will of Allah ? Can it prevent Allah's decree from occuring ? isnt it a shirk ? If Allah wants you pray can a black magician stop it ? No my bro not every problem is black magic ?

What do you have to say about istikhara results going wrong ?
 
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You can say anything to me bro, but calling a religious person a black magician is not right. I am no expert in Istikharah or religion bit I do know that accusing someone is wrong. I may or may not be a vctim of Black Magic (No signs I feel) but do yu think that black magic is stronger than the Will of Allah ? Can it prevent Allah's decree from occuring ? isnt it a shirk ? If Allah wants you pray can a black magician stop it ? No my bro not every problem is black magic ?

What do you have to say about istikhara results going wrong ?
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The istikhara page that you linked mentions the dua of istikhara and the meaning is along these lines:

O Allah, You have power (control) and I have no control and You know and I do not know, and You know the condition of the Unseen. Thus if You see (deem fit) that this woman (here mention her name) is good for me concerning my Deen, world and Akhirah then grant me her control (make it possible that I marry her) and if besides her there be (another woman) which is better for me concerning Deen and Akhirah then specify her for me (grant me control over he)".

So, you can see, it is abundantly clear that the woman who you intended to marry was not a good fit for you per the dua.
 
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why positive istikharas yielded wrong or undesirable results ?
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Istikhara is nothing more than a normal Dua in which a person prays to Allah to guide him to reach a right decision.The expected result of Istikhara is that the relevant person himself takes a decision which is good for him in this world or in the hereinafter or in both. But just as the grant of other prayers depends on certain conditions the Istikhara is subject to those conditions as well. If some of these conditions are lacking, it is not necessary that this prayer is granted.

Second, to make an Istikhara does not mean that a person abandons all other necessary enquiries. A person must carry out all efforts necessary to reach a correct decision even after making Istikhara. If a person is content on Istikhara only and does not make the required efforts to reach the correct decision he may fall into error.

There's no point in doing istikhara if we don't put our trust in Allah. That's what Istikhara is all about - to ask Allah for His guidance and then letting Him guide you in it(Check this explanation). To say whether or not this "result" should then be followed nullifies the entire purpose of asking for guidance and help.
 
You're better of with weed as a relaxant than those nerve damaging cocktails they'll inject you with if they determine you're a suicide risk.
Some of those chemicals have lobotomy like effects which cut off your ability to make connections and think quickly.

Weed is risky too though as shaytaan gives you waswas, and if you've got porn issues it'll probably wind you up another notch - wouldn't recommend it as a best option.
Some still wonder if the forbidden tree contained hallucinogens - it defo got them thinking abt sx and suddenly feelng the need to cover up like they suddenly came back to their senses. SubhanAah - only Allah is free from imperfection.

ThemesII Our Youth ...the Essential Model
THE ISLAMIC PERSPECTIVE ON ADOLESCENCE

The essential stage in biological life, and the stage at which Islamic legal liability is assumed, is adolescence. On this subject, the specialists and researchers in education, psychology and sociology, have averred that it is the most important stage in life. How should we regard the state of adolescence?
When Islam directs the human being, it directs the kinetics of his being, emphasizing the elements of "practical anxiety" in his inner self. When God speaks of Adam as an example to humankind, He says:

"And we had taken the covenant of Adam, but he forgot and We found in him no firm resolve" (Taha, 20:11 20:115).

The discourse here is about Adam as an example, in his role as a person who does not possess the strong resolve of God's words:
"The human being is created in haste, I will show you My signs, but ask Me not to hasten" (al Anbiya, 21:37); "And the human was ever hasty " (al Isra, 17:11);
"Man was created weak" (al-Nisa, 4:28);
"God is He who shaped you out of weakness" (al Rum, 30:54);
and "Neither do 1 absolve myself of blame for the human self is prone to evil except that on which my Lord has bestowed His Mercy" (Yusuf, 12:53).
We see, then, in more than one verse, that the emphasis is on the fact that, when created, the human being was not cast with monolithic strength, but that there are elements of weakness residing in his being.When we study these elements of weakness, we see that....[

http://english.bayynat.org.lb/WorldofYouth/themesII-1.htm
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Anyway, the fact that Adam pbuh kept messing up should be a useful reminder to us when we try to stand back up again.
But also bearing in mind that he had the experiences of no elders or peers to derive from and could be excused easier.
 
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Abz2000 said:
You're better of with weed as a relaxant than those nerve damaging cocktails they'll inject you with if they determine you're a suicide risk.
Some of those chemicals have lobotomy like effects which cut off your ability to make connections and think quickly.

Weed is risky too though as shaytaan gives you waswas, and if you've got porn issues it'll probably wind you up another notch - wouldn't recommend it as a best option.
Some still wonder if the forbidden tree contained hallucinogens - it defo got them thinking abt sx and suddenly feelng the need to cover up like they suddenly came back to their senses. SubhanAah - only Allah is free from imperfection.
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Morning bro. I know you mean well, but I'm not convinced that this is the most informed post that I've ever read.

If anyone is experiencing mental health issues, including depression, weed is the last thing they should consider. And contrary to what you say, professional, medical help is definitely the right way to try to tackle such issues. Who are you or I to argue against centuries of research and treatment and experience that medical professionals call upon, when diagnosing and medicating mental health issues?

Smallkid, in my humble opinion, you are almost borderline depressed. That would explain your inability to currently break out of the negative spiral of thoughts that engulf you. Where do you live?
 
I live in Pakistan. Being depressed is one thing and being ugly, confused and depressed with nothing good happening is another.
 
It's part and parcel of the same thing. Once your thoughts improve, you will notice that things are not as bad as you currently feel.

You have money, can you go see a doctor? I'm pretty sure you can get good treatment, if you are lucky enough to have the money for it in Pakistan? Just get a professional opinion?
 
You have a email address, I will share a photo with you that will show that I am a lost cause.
 
Hi. I do, but I don't need a photo; no one is a lost cause.

I had a disabled brother who was plagued by numerous physical and mental illnesses. Yet he loved every day that he lived, and clung onto life with every ounce of energy that his body could muster. He was not a lost cause, and you are not neither.
 
You won't see the pain unless you see the photos. It's worse than being disabled or any other problem.
 
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Morning bro. I know you mean well, but I'm not convinced that this is the most informed post that I've ever read.

If anyone is experiencing mental health issues, including depression, weed is the last thing they should consider. And contrary to what you say, professional, medical help is definitely the right way to try to tackle such issues. Who are you or I to argue against centuries of research and treatment and experience that medical professionals call upon, when diagnosing and medicating mental health issues?

Smallkid, in my humble opinion, you are almost borderline depressed. That would explain your inability to currently break out of the negative spiral of thoughts that engulf you. Where do you live?
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Bro, most of that stuff in psychiatry is hit and miss quackery which is prescribed after talking to a patient a few hours over the course of a few days with no regard to the complex incidents and multiple minor lead up stagesthat lead to conditions, most conditions that are not a result of direct brain damage can be resolved with better living and healthy surroundings, chemicals in brain circuitry are known and proven to stabilize with no foreign chemical insertion other than decent food, a person who works with mental health units explained to me that the medication is usually quite uniform among the masses and that it shuts off complex procedures, people can sometimes become like zombies.

Anyone who's reasearched lobotomy would know how vague, clueless and brutal the process is.
It was pushed as a viable method in america and was standard procedure there long after countries like russia and germany had discarded it.
Anyways, ur brain can't be working right if your soul isn't working right so it might be an irony but the Quran explains that those who reject faith are most astray rom the path and mad (not that i claim to be an angel myself), so some of those shrinks fall into that category, if someone was under covert surveillance and noticed weird incidents like things out of place in their house and claimed such to them, they'd probably label it as paranoia or some other blind label since no proof can be provided to back up such a claim.
Imagine they caught prophet abraham(pbuh) trying to sacrifice his son because he wanted to please God - those infidel shrinks woulda locked him up before you could say "how's your father's mother in law", and after interviewing him and finding that he was hearing voices they would probably attempt an extra dose. Now i know he wasn't the mad one but ask any shrink you know what the standard procedure would be and whether they would ever recognise such claims even if it became obvious but not officially recognised.
Then ask yourself if prescribing medication based on checklists is even valid once obvious truth is deliberately taken out of an equation.

It's hit and miss quackery that can cause permanent brain damage.
In technology we have a saying - if it ain't broken, don't try and take it apart to fix it.

Nerves have a lot in common so it's not just one part of the brain that is effected when a neutralising chemical is randomly pushed into the arm or butt cheek, but it would be difficult to explain that to the antecessors of lobotomists since they must feel they've come a long way from the past few decades.....


Ramadan is a good time to try and heal physically and spiritually i believe, it becomes easier to make changes and stay focused due to the discipline it requires and taqwa and feeling of Allah's presence it generates, the instructions of the Quran are also brought to the forefront, if that doesn't fix things for at least a few months then God knows what will.antecessors of lobotomists as they feel like they've made a
 
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wow from black magic as suggested by scimi to brain damage. Wow compounded problems. god is great and I am very lucky. In the current condition ramadan for me will be just another months with no pray and only music and gym to make sure that my mind stays in the right faith. It will be just a month where I will fast for better health and nothing more. Pain and more pain to follow.
 
Am tempted to ask mods to close this thread. Only because it seems as though you are not benefitting from ANY advice on this thread.

Why are you intentionally talking nonsense for? Ramadan with no pray and just gym? Brother scimitar has exhausted himself as well as other members and given you the privilege of sharing their tips and practical steps and you're not taking their advice on board. So if you adamant and stubborn in not changing bad ways that's your choice. Allah keeps giving you chances each day and you're choosing to ignore HIM so how can we expect you to take our advice seriously, when you're failing to treat yourself with respect and neglecting your Muslim duties.

The road of self-pity is a dangerous and dark one. You know the difference between right and wrong.
 
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