Family Problems :(

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Sinan said:
Dear Brothers & Sisters.
First of all let me introduce myself.
My name is Sinan. I'm 17 years old and I'm a Muslim.
My father is from Palestine, his father, and other brothers now live in Jordan.
My family, at the moment live in Bosnia & Herzegovina.

My father married a Christian woman 27 years ago. He met her in Yugoslavia.
She was a nice woman, but now ....

It has been 5 years that we are having family problems.
She keeps insulting us... she always starts making problems, fights.. arguments and the fight starts....

Anyways, I've broke my leg 13 years ago... I had an surgery in Italy , 3 times, and all 3 times they went bad.. I nearly lost my leg, but Allhamdullilah.

My father( Muslim ) started collecting and working hard 1 month ago, to take me to another country to make a surgery on my knee... And he collected like 27.000 Euro ... He and my mother knew only where the money is being held ... But suddenly ... 1000 Euro disappeared ...

My dad asked one night kindly my mother.. '' I've brought some more money and lets go and put them together with the other ones..'' But she said '' No, you go by your own '' Then he said : '' Ok I'll bring them here and we'll count them together '' But she replied : '' No , do it by your own '' .

My dad as well knew that long time ago, she kept taking money from him ... and he didn't say anything...

Then that evening he said... so the fight started... She went away to her mother for 1 week... then she came back.. we had peace etc...

It has been time since I started to pray to Allah...and whenever I say example if we are somewhere or if we're eating .. I say : Hurry up, I have to go to pray '' ... And she always laughs to me... and my old brother which is 27 years old too ...

Today I said that to my dad... He wants to take them out of the house but they don't want to leave...

My brother insulted Allah , insulted my Religion ... everything ... I don't know what to do ... He wanted to kill me today, he took a knife.. but my father stopped him ... My brother, son of my aunt in Palestine is here too .. and he stopped him ...

I don't know what to do anymore.. My dad trusts me and I said that I've seen my mother taking the money... He wants to call the police and report her.. I saw it so I will say the truth to the police...

But please, dear brothers and sisters... Help me... I'm really desperate... I don't know what to do anymore...

Since I've as well fought with my mother and my brother... My dad goes everyday early in the morning to work and he comes late in the night ... From Monday there's nobody who can take me to school. I can walk but I fatigue pretty fast... Help me please...

الله اكبر يا رب يشفينا و يحمينا إن شاء الله
ٍسالام
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bro is this christian woman your mother? Im a bit confused, sorry
 
Enough!

to the OP.. I am troubled by your troubles akhi.. la 7wala wla qiwta illa billah..
I am not sure about the health care system in Europe, but I believe there are free programs that you can sign up for to receive proper medical attention.. please call random university hospitals to see if they are able to help you with your medical condition for free or with partial payments..

other than that, May I suggest you move out on your own? see if you can find some Muslim people to be flat mates with and get a job, a desk job so you don't put much strain on your legs.. I know you are probably still in school t? if these sound like reasonable options? call your school see if they can arrange some help for you, they usually have an office for people who require special needs?..

Insha'Allah, Allah swt will guide you and yours to what he loves and wants, grant you security, and good health ameen

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wow wat a sad story .. but just ask allah for help....................n he will help u.. inshallah



wish u good luckkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk
 
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Don't give up and be patient. Allah (swt) is Best of Helpers and better than any family member or friend. He Alone Listens to our du'as and He Alone Answers them.

you are not alone. Even when you're not praying, there is knowledge and inspiration everywhere. The worst of today may be the best of tomorrow.

You told us your story and we are behind you. Your own faith may as well be this Ummah's. People who come here struggling and in similar bad situations, may read your story and hope that you succeed because you strengthen the idea that good faith gives one triumph, maybe not here, but where it matters - Jannah. It is fate that you brought you here, so we as a world can support each other.
May Allah (swt) Guide us all.
 
Skye Ephémérine said:
Enough!

to the OP.. I am troubled by your troubles akhi.. la 7wala wla qiwta illa billah..
I am not sure about the health care system in Europe, but I believe there are free programs that you can sign up for to receive proper medical attention.. please call random university hospitals to see if they are able to help you with your medical condition for free or with partial payments..

other than that, May I suggest you move out on your own? see if you can find some Muslim people to be flat mates with and get a job, a desk job so you don't put much strain on your legs.. I know you are probably still in school t? if these sound like reasonable options? call your school see if they can arrange some help for you, they usually have an office for people who require special needs?..

Insha'Allah, Allah swt will guide you and yours to what he loves and wants, grant you security, and good health ameen

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asalam alaikum wr wb,

Good advice mashaAllah.

Not to say people already haven't, but please everyone remember to make duaa specifically for our little brother Sinan inshaAllah. :thumbs_up
 
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Dear Brothers & Sisters

To one who told me to learn Arabic , I already speak it ^^ Alhamdollilah.

For now , dear brothers and sisters, everything is fine ... My father will soon do the right thing inshaAllah.

Thank you for keeping me in your du'as and I'm also keeping all of you in mine.

May Allah protect us all from this evilness and inshaAllah brothers and sisters we'll see eachother in Jannah.

:statisfie
 
asalam alaikum wr wb & Alhumdulillah@
'My father will soon do the right thing inshaAllah.'
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Ameen to your duaa. May Allah bless you with the same inshaAllah. Ameen.
 
Sinan said:
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Dear Brothers & Sisters

To one who told me to learn Arabic , I already speak it ^^ Alhamdollilah.

For now , dear brothers and sisters, everything is fine ... My father will soon do the right thing inshaAllah.

Thank you for keeping me in your du'as and I'm also keeping all of you in mine.

May Allah protect us all from this evilness and inshaAllah brothers and sisters we'll see eachother in Jannah.

:statisfie
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Gr8 that u know Arabic . Mashallah. Happy to hear from you And pray that things go well with you. Ameen
 
Oh I am very moved and sad by the circumstances of your life my brother, I will certainly pray for you, remember my brother 'After hardship, comes ease' 'After hardship, comes ease' if not in this dunya then CERTAINLY in the hereafter, stay strong my brother, read the lives of the Prophets (peace be upon them all) to keep you motivated and strong...I will pray for you brother sinan, may you have peace within your family, ameen.....ameen to all your duas
 

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