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Just tell my parents and we'll tie the knot like a berserk sailor.
This is from a sister:
Is it ok to love a brother for the sake of Allah? I mean, if you don't know the person at all, you've never met him, spoken to him, just.. read what he writes.. & you can just think: Masha'Allah, I wanna marry a dude like him..
& not tell him of course.. Just keeping it to yourself.. Is that okay?
And it's not like I'm in love or feel attracted to him at all.. It's like, he has soo much knowledge, and the way he replies is so good, masha'Allah.. So is it okay to love him for the sake of Allah?
Can you answer this for the sister plz.. Jazak Allâhu khayr..
...I'm joking. I know you're probably talking about zAk the stud or someone.
(this post is meant in jest. Please take it as such or lighten up.
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I would like to remind members of the following forum rule:
18. Do not say "Islam says X" unless your position is based upon sound evidence - which means the Qur'an and the Sunnah. Always cite your sources. If quoting the Qur'an, give suroorat (chapter) and ayah (verse) number. For ahadeeth, you must the name of the collection, volume/book number and hadeeth number. Unless you quoting from an agreed-upon authenthic collection (i.e. Bukharee, Muslim) you must also provide authenthic information.
Therefore please take care in the advice you give, and members asking for advice are reminded to be careful of what they accept.
Jazakallaahu Khayr,
Love is good....
....Results of 'love' may not always be quite as good
Personally, i think theres nothing wrong with admiring someones knowledge and character. However, when its someone of the opposite sex, then its probably better to not say anything. Unless the intention is for marriage in which case........
Another thing to remember is that people in forums and in the "Cyber" world aren't always the same as in the real world. A person might come across as being one thing when in reality they are something completely different.
The only advice i would give is to 'listen' to the heart, if the heart is sound then it wont lead you astray. If it feels wrong then it probably is wrong. I'm sure most people in this forum have experienced what i am talking about. When you are doing wrong the heart tells you this doesnt feel right.
May Allah(SWT) guide us all on the right path.
....Results of 'love' may not always be quite as good
Personally, i think theres nothing wrong with admiring someones knowledge and character. However, when its someone of the opposite sex, then its probably better to not say anything. Unless the intention is for marriage in which case........
Another thing to remember is that people in forums and in the "Cyber" world aren't always the same as in the real world. A person might come across as being one thing when in reality they are something completely different.
The only advice i would give is to 'listen' to the heart, if the heart is sound then it wont lead you astray. If it feels wrong then it probably is wrong. I'm sure most people in this forum have experienced what i am talking about. When you are doing wrong the heart tells you this doesnt feel right.
May Allah(SWT) guide us all on the right path.
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I agree with netprince,
The most are very diffrent in real live! Wa Allaho a3lem. But when it comes to admiring because ofhis Islamic point of few, i don't think he's gonna act diffrent about that.
But if you think this little love that you got could lead to fitnah, try to avoid it. Because it begins innocent.
Wa Allaho a3lem, is there a fatwa about this?
Wassalam
The most are very diffrent in real live! Wa Allaho a3lem. But when it comes to admiring because ofhis Islamic point of few, i don't think he's gonna act diffrent about that.
But if you think this little love that you got could lead to fitnah, try to avoid it. Because it begins innocent.
Wa Allaho a3lem, is there a fatwa about this?
Wassalam