Female students kissing one another every day

Italian men do it as a greeting:embarrass It's not looked at as homosexual, but i wouldn't dare do it in Virginia:phew My uncles do that all the time, nothing weird?
 
Whattttttt??
But my best friend is like my sister. We learned to pray together, we do everything together. I dont understand how hugging her and kissing her on the cheek is bad. :(
 
AlbanianMuslim said:
Wait.... I cant kiss my aunty on the cheek? seriously?
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LOL, I don't care what anyone says, my aunties always get a kiss on the cheek from me:embarrass My Indian mother-in-law thinks it's so weird i do that....it scared her at first;D she just laughs now and says it's an Italian thing...she's right......but i usually just bend down and touch their feet as i am supposed to.
 
AlbanianMuslim said:
Whattttttt??
But my best friend is like my sister. We learned to pray together, we do everything together. I dont understand how hugging her and kissing her on the cheek is bad. :(
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see the original post AlbanianMuslim, that explains it best.
in short, if your freind returns from a journey then it's acceptable to kiss her as a greeting. On a day to day basis, hands are shook instead.
 
barney said:
see the original post AlbanianMuslim, that explains it best.
in short, if your freind returns from a journey then it's acceptable to kiss her as a greeting. On a day to day basis, hands are shook instead.
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With the right hand....of course
 
Oh ok. I talk to her daily but since we are both so busy these days I rarely see her but when I do its BIG hugs and a kiss on the cheek. Same with my aunties. Phew, I got nervous there for a second.
 
AlbanianMuslim said:
Oh ok. I talk to her daily but since we are both so busy these days I rarely see her but when I do its BIG hugs and a kiss on the cheek. Same with my aunties. Phew, I got nervous there for a second.
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Yup families are fine afaik. Hugs n kisses in a bun dance:D

Best freinds and others , kisses if they have returned from journeys only, otherwise its just shaking hands.
 
I've seen loads of Middle Eastern men/women do this in public here and my relatives and friends greet the same way all the time among the same sex, of course.
 
Assalamoalaikum, I meet my friends once a week or sometimes twice a week, then I kiss them on thier cheeks, mostly if I meet someone dailt it's only a hello or salam, I must say i dont hvae the habbit of shaking hands...

So after reading this, I must shake hands with people I meet everyday and kiss people only if they have come from a journey? Right?

JazakAllah for sharing this, I never knew this..
 
HopeFul said:
Assalamoalaikum, I meet my friends once a week or sometimes twice a week, then I kiss them on thier cheeks, mostly if I meet someone dailt it's only a hello or salam, I must say i dont hvae the habbit of shaking hands...

So after reading this, I must shake hands with people I meet everyday and kiss people only if they have come from a journey? Right?

JazakAllah for sharing this, I never knew this..
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I am not sure u can be this stringent on these sorta things...wallahu A'lam...there is no Quranic or hadith evidence which states u cannot kiss Mahram ppl out of love from my knowledge..Wallahua'alam...if Muhammad has kissed someone, then we know its ok...we dun look at it and ask too many questions like how the jews asked about the cow...everything is based on our intentions..as long as its not a bid'ah...if everytime u kiss ur brother and say "allahumma salli 'ala Muhammad" then thats not right...if what i have said is right, its from Allah..if what i had said is wrong, its from Shaitan...
 
oh my gosh my friend kisses me is it haraam? hell nearly all my friends do

are u sure this fatwa is correct :X
 
cat eyes said:
oh my gosh my friend kisses me is it haraam? hell nearly all my friends do

are u sure this fatwa is correct :X
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Of course it is, the hadeeth prohibiting it are mentioned.

Al-Tirmidhi narrated (2728) that Anas ibn Maalik (may Allaah be pleased with him) said: A man said: O Messenger of Allaah, when one of us meets his brother or his friend, should he bow to him? He said: No. He said: Should he embrace him and kiss him? He said: No. He said: Should he take his hand and shake hands with him? He said: Yes. This hadeeth was classed as hasan by al-Albaani in Saheeh Sunan al-Tirmidhi.

Once Allah and His messenger have issued a matter a believer should have no opinion or say after it. [Qur'an]
 
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In many countries its part of the culture there that women embrace kisses each other. I found it weird to do this daily though...but for someone I don't see for a month or so I will show the happiness of meeting her again by embracing and kissing her.

Above all, if there is an evil intent behind such act its better to avoid it all.
 

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