Friendship of the opposite gender in Islam

[GuestFellow]

Salam!

I have an odd question. I have become very close to a muslim brother. We have started using niknames which were initiated by him. Names include honey, sweetie, cutie, and darling. Is there anything wrong with this.

Salaam,

That is disturbing. There is something wrong here. Those names are inappropriate.

Thank you all for your replys.

I think that there is more to this that just friendship...Now he is insisting that I am like a sister to him. He says he wants me to move to his country with him (central Asia) and live with his family as a sibling. He told me that I would not have to work anymore and that I would not have to worry about going out alone as someone would always be with me from his family. He also told me that if I comes there he wants me to go with his mother and meet a girl whom he might marry. Then he says to me that he wants to have me forever with him...How can he marry a girl and still have his so called sister (me) with him?? Are there muslim guys that actully think they can adopt another muslim sister as a real sister?? I am so confused. Yet I really feel good when we are talking together, I am starting to become afraid of this relationship...Am I over reacting??

Stay away from him. He could be dangerous. O_____________O

It is as simple as that.

 

[Salahudeen]

Do you ever read your own signature ?

All the time, when have I ever called for asabiyah? There's a difference between desiring someone who speaks a common language and thinking your nation is better than another, which I am free from alhamdulilah.

 

[Futuwwa]

As far as I see it, the only possible redeeming feature about him would be if he actually wants to marry you. However, if he does, he certainly seems to have some pretty serious issues. The fact that he can't bring himself to propose to you directly and be upfront about his intentions does raise the question, is he ready for marriage to begin with? I doubt it.

 

[loving_quran]

The video says it all.

 

[Salahudeen]

The video says it all.

Sadly emotions and feelings blind people, so they can't see it so clearly .