Handbags and Hijabs

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only Allah knows what in the breast of mankind we have not been given that knowledge and we should not judge a person based on their outer appearance because maybe insha'Allah in her heart she has iman and insha'Allah maybe oneday she will change Allah deos not judge a person according to their appearance but he examines their hearts
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And may Allah forgive us all
 
I dont see anything wrong with matching hijab and purse as long as it is not too eye catching. cuz then it defeats the purpose of hijab.


Abdul said:
Asalamu Alaikum

I see a lot of it. Hijab and handbags. Hijab and tight pants. Hijab and long skirts which some believe to be ok Islamicly. Hijab and short skirts, quite possibly?

I know most of the girls wear the hijab as a fashion statement. Like walking around showing your arse and covering you hair is being modest. I can't remember who said that to me now.
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since when is wearing long skirts not islamic? Long skirts are better than pants... with pants you'd have to wear a jilbab or a long shirt so that it hides the curves.

Anything that is loose enough not to show the curves of the body should be good.
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Women should cover their hair and wear something that doesn't show the shape of their body to be an Islamic dress.
 
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Woman are commanded to dress modestly not to wear any particular style of clothing. They should cover their hair and cover their body not revealing the shape of the body.

I personally do not see anything wrong with matching scarf and handbag.

I like the idea of the husband instructing the wife what to wear, I might try this when I have a little more courage.

Peace
 
Asalamu Alaikum

Hijab and long skirts which some believe to be ok Islamicly
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Keyword in that quote is some. I hope you know the meaning of that word and understand the context it's in. As much as I would love to, I can't answer you soulja-ess and psuedosalafi. Why? Simply because I can't voice someone else' answer.

Is that my opinion? No. Did I say it is non-Islamic? No. Can you see any of my views in there? No. Why bother taking it up with me?

It's become such a common thing in the Ummah where people just like to bicker over little things, yet they don't read and try to understand carefully before they even start questioning.

And these 'some' people, were talking about the long skirts which fit tightly around the lower body. I don't know who wants to wear them punk frilly type skirts which are in fashion at the moment.
 
Abdul said:
Asalamu Alaikum


. I don't know who wants to wear them punk frilly type skirts which are in fashion at the moment.
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the gypsy style skirts you mean?
white is the best colour in them i think
they are better than the elastic skirts though..
 
Assalamu'Alaykum

yeaaaa!!! i saw those my friends wear them....

:omg:.... i think its best for muslim sisters because its wide and has no slits on the sides back or front.....


black is best...

black is always best color for a Sister
 
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Once there was a sister infront of me, I couldn't lower my gaze - I had to look up and away. She was wearing a long skirt, but you could see the outline of her underwear LOL Same goes for guys, trousers can be too tight and you shouldn't really tuck your shirt in.

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Doesn't have to be black. I mean wearing all black can make you stand out even more.

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Assalamu'Alaykum

its not about standing out more, its how you stand out if i;m the only niqabi all in black an a white neighborhood then is that my fault...if i standout Alhamdulillaah in most case ok all the time i stand out and thats a form of Da'wa for me. i dont stand out to a an extent where men can see my body.

i think BLACK is the color for women
WHite for men

ppl might differ but... thats what i think some ppl might say you dont have to wear all black yes you dont HAVE to noone said u HAVE to i just said its better for women to wear black
 
Asalamu Alaikum

When wearing black, or covered in black, a shape is hard to figure. That's why women are advised to go out in black.
 
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What about navy?

Anyway, the sister was wearing black skirt and you could still see her underwear. I don't see black making any difference unless you are going out at night.

I think black is just a saudi thing.

I would have thought what's better for women would be what did not bring the gaze towards them.

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i once saw a woman holding her hijab to her face whilst it was falling off her head
i take it thats culture not religion :)
 
ahm said:
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What about navy?

Anyway, the sister was wearing black skirt and you could still see her underwear. I don't see black making any difference unless you are going out at night.

I think black is just a saudi thing.

I would have thought what's better for women would be what did not bring the gaze towards them.

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kaseyatun A'areyat - they wear clothes but it is as if they are not weairng anything at all.... hmmm i see that TYPE of black

Black is a Saudi thing? what does that mean? do u also believe niqab is a Saudi thing aswell?



gaze will be brough no matter what... its what kind of gaze a women is brings to herself.....
 
simple rule is to wear a full islamic dress whenever going out. how hard can it be? don't go with the flow be the flow
 
its not simple.
its very difficult for some to follow such a rule
because the desire to want what others have will always lead u astray.
but if ur strong in faith then u wnt have a problem and such vain desires just pass over ur head.
 
then women shouldn't want what others want, they shouldn't be basing them selves on people unless they are good islamic role models. once you wear full islamic dress then you will soon get used to it and people will adapt to your clothing and will follow
 
Asalamu Alaikum

I'm still confused as to why we don't greet each other with salaam when starting a post. Is it too hard?
 

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