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Akeyi said:
IT IS BETTER TO NOT GET MARRIED NOT HAVE CHILDREN IN AHIR ZAMAN MY FRIENDS: AHIR ZAMAN BEDEUTET LAST TIMES. THAT IS HOW IT IS. BUT i guess you are weakkkkkkkkk
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So much better to get married but thanks for the offer
 
Happy Muslim couples live and breathe this hadith in their marriage:


“He who does not thank the people is not thankful to Allah.” [Abu Dawud]


What is not there to thank your spouse for? Here are 5 reasons to thank your spouse right now:



  • For providing you a roof to live under/for making a home out of your house
  • For buying you clothes to wear/for making sure you have clean clothes to wear everyday
  • For buying you the food you eat everyday/for making delicious meals for you everyday
  • For being there to take you where you need to go/for being there to take care of the house when you’re away
  • For coming back home to you every evening/for being the person you can come home to everyday

Source: http://productivemuslim.com/happy-muslim-couples/
 
[emoji257] *SPOUSES TILL JANNAH* [emoji259] [emoji127]
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Being married is not just about eating together, sleeping and waking side by side, strolling to the beach or village river together, doing the lovey-dovey, pillow fights together or doing chores together.

This are only the extra-curricular activities, the main thing that needs to be done together is Iba'dah, and this is where many couples fall short. We were created for the worship of Allah, here are the ways to do it together:

1)Abu says:
Sweetheart, its friday, let's recite surah khaf together.

2)Ummu says:
My boo, it's friday, I will like to follow you to ju'mah today, I miss the khutbah series.

3)Aboo says:
Hey dear, wakie wakie, wake up and let's pray, its time for tahajud, our LORD is in the first heaven calling on to us.

4)Ummu says:
Ya habeebi, today is the day of our sister's program in the masjid, won't you follow me to the program and give us a befitting lecture? But lower your gaze there pls, winks.

5)Aboo says,
Hey bae, even if you are off-salat, have you done your evening adhkaar? Let's do it together.

6)Ummu says:
Ya sheikhi, now that we have observed isha, its time for our daily family halqah, won't you give us an admonition or teach us fiqh?

7)Aboo says:
Darling, you are dressing up right, hold it, let me put your hijab on you and tie your niqab for you.

8)Ummu says:
My dear, today is saturday, you are not going to work, won't you use this opportunity to visit the grave with the kids so as to remember the hereafter?

9)Aboo says:
My queen, tomorrow is monday, let's prepare to fast tomorrow so as to please our Lord.

10)Ummu says:
Hi honey-pie! Today is sunday and we are not going anywhere, so let me get the kettles, so that we can observe salatud-duha.

11)Aboo says:
Princess, since the rain is falling, I can't go to the masjid to pray, get the mat so that I will lead the salah while you pray behind me. I will recite your favourite surah.

12)Ummu says:
Hey bae, the prophet sallalahu alayhi wassalam ordered us to recite surah baqarah every 3days/nights, so let's commence, I will recite a page and you recite the next, till we finish it.

13)Aboo says:
Honey, let's quikly recite surah mulk and sajdah before sleeping so that it will save us from the punishment of the grave.

The prophet sallalahu alayhi wassalam said,
May Allah have mercy on a man who wakes up at night to pray, he wakes his wife to pray and if she refuses, he sprinkles water on her face.

May Allah have mercy on a woman who wakes up at night to pray, she wakes her husband and if he resists, she would sprinkle water on his face
(Sahih ul jaami, 3494)
How beautiful is this hadith, this is how couples should help in fulfilling 50% of eachother's deen. Marry a person who will help you in the worldly affairs as well as the matters of your hereafter.

If your boo doesn't help you to become a better muslim, then your boo is a bull.
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Many people do say:
"I want a spouse who will hold my hands to jannah"

The bridge of siraat is not ijebu bridge that requires just a hand to help you cross it, everyone is for himself, so jannah is not earned by mere dua, you need to both work for it.
Allah says:

(Paradise is not earned) by your mere wishful thinking
(Nisaa vs 123)

When couples play, snore, fart, sleep, wake, eat, drink, smile, laugh, cry, walk, run, discuss, think, act and pray together, they share a very deep form of "companionship and compatibility" that cannot be created any other way and can't be found anywhere else!!![emoji173][emoji259]

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“All the advice you ever gave your partner is for you to hear.”
― Byron Katie, Question Your Thinking, Change The World
 
"A true soulmate is a mirror, the person who shows you everything that is holding you back, the person who brings you to your own attention so you can change your life. A true soulmate is probably the most important person you'll ever meet, because they tear down your walls and smack you awake."
— Elizabeth Gilbert
 
Jewel said:
11)Aboo says:
Princess, since the rain is falling, I can't go to the masjid to pray, get the mat so that I will lead the salah while you pray behind me. I will recite your favourite surah.
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Why not? Is he made of salt, that he'll melt in the rain? Rain is good.
 
i like that part when husband and wife
1.wakeup early for Tahajjud prayer...loved ones word would make us get up quickly...if love is losing...Tahajjud too will lose eventually..
2.both eat from same plate....i like it much better than anything...when i go out for da'wah with tabligh....i get to know a lot of people...we ate in one plate...a bigger one...even though food is limited we ate with love and i got goosebumps and i feel like increasing eeman...and not missing dua while eating...allahumma lakal hamd walaka shukr
3.Helping her in kitchen and cleaning...i like to do these ...actually i wasnt been liking liking this...but these days i reinnovate myself ...i like to help...in childhood i hate vegetables now i love all sort of vegetables
4.increasing shukr salah ...in home
5.learning or discussing hadiths...being like a child with wife
......etc
you can suggest me more things to increase love

may Allah make our hearts pure righteous and make us to help those people whom Allah wished to help through us.
 
Re: Happy Muslim Husband & Wife thread

I took vow in the name of Allah to marry a girl for dheen, years back.She doesn't reply nor cared about me.I am deppressed after that.Totally she was more precious than anything.because i wished so much to love her for dheen.If i didn't got to marry her(as i am studying) i vowed to her that i do marry a handicapped and very very poor nonbeautiful person and protect for a lifetime ....i could do it with enough eeman in me.I feel there is no person for me to correct my faults in life...i am lonely...
 
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