Gems Happy Muslim Husband & Wife thread

[Sakina'141]

 

[Sakina'141]

Sunnahs...

 

[Sakina'141]

Hmm...our search for the soulmates goes on...May Allah swt unite us and them in happiness & love, Ameen.

 

[strivingobserver98]

 

[strivingobserver98]

 

[Umm Abed]

[MENTION=33361]Jewel[/MENTION], you keep this thread alive



Interesting sayings!

Masha'allah.

 

[strivingobserver98]

@Jewel , you keep this thread alive

Walaikum salam yes . Very proud of this thread. One of the top 3 popular threads in family and society section, with 39,522 views :statisfie

 

[noraina]

Still one of my favourite threads here as well, ma'sha'Allah.

A little idealistic perhaps , but it gives us all something to learn and aspire to in our own marriages or when we get married in'sha'Allah.

It just needs to be compiled into a book now...

 

[strivingobserver98]

A little idealistic perhaps , but it gives us all something to learn and aspire to in our own marriages or when we get married in'sha'Allah.

Check out this Awesome couple: www.instagram.com/ummxabdullah

Of course requires work from both sides and many other factors, but defo possible .

It just needs to be compiled into a book now...

Hmm good idea!

 

[noraina]

Check out this Awesome couple: www.instagram.com/ummxabdullah

Of course requires work from both sides and many other factors, but defo possible .

Yes - I've been stalking their social media for a while now, lol. They and their children are adorable allahumma barik laha.

 

[strivingobserver98]

 

[strivingobserver98]

If you believe in love and go looking for love stories you'll find them in the the Seerah and biographies of the Sahabah.

- Wives of Jannah

 

[strivingobserver98]

 

[strivingobserver98]

A spouse’s oppression of his or her spouse is a deeper corruption and a faster road to catastrophe than a ruler’s oppression of his subjects.

- Muhammad al-Ghazali

 

[Hopes N Prayers]

 

[strivingobserver98]

 

[strivingobserver98]

Narrated 'Aisha:
Once Hala bint Khuwailid, Khadija's sister, asked the permission of the Prophet to enter. On that, the Prophet remembered the way Khadija used to ask permission, and he was overwhelmed with emotion. He said, "O Allah! Hala!"

Sahih Al Bukhari
English reference: Vol. 5, Book 58, Hadith 168
Arabic reference: Book 63, Hadith 3869


'A'isha reported:
Never did I feel jealous of the wives of Allah's Apostle (may peace be upon him) but in case of Khadija, although I did no, (have the privilege to) see her. She further added that whenever Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) slaughtered a sheep, he said: Send it to the companions of Khadija I annoyed him one day and said: (It is) Khadija only who always prevails upon your mind. Thereupon Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) said: Her love had been nurtured in my heart by Allah Himself.

From Sahih Al Bukhari
English reference: Book 31, Hadith 5972
Arabic reference: Book 45, Hadith 6431

 

[strivingobserver98]

 

[strivingobserver98]

 

['Abd-al Latif]

I fully appreciate the naseehah. Now let’s discuss the other side of marriage. The dark side. If embraced fully and properly, will truly lead to a happy marriage.

You’re married and slowly the rose-tinted glasses are coming off and the honeymoon period is dying away and a new era, the true dawn, is on the horizon. You’re now beginning to realise that you’re stuck with the extremely round and pink pimples, toxic farts and incessant snoring of your spouse (yes - this is to both genders). The in-laws are grouchy and needy and there’s hair everywhere on the bed in the morning (you don’t own a cat). Worst of all, you can’t stand the arguments over every litttle thing that happens in your lives.

Life doesn’t look like it’s going to ever go back to the Romeo and Juliet period. What do you do?