Haqeeqat of Allah's Master Plan

[Scimitar]

He would't know pious if it hit him in the face with a sign attached reading PIOUS.

Scimi

 

[smallkid]

how do you make friends? I told you I am people's repeller. seriously I do not know this art.

 

[Scimitar]

if you keep a crappy attitude the way you have, you won't be making ANY friends, all will run a mile from you - people like HAPPY PEOPLE... so BE HAPPY, not a crybaby who needs sympathy - at your age you should be a MAN, not a frikking loser... and that's what you gonna be if you keep telling yourself you are all of those things you believe yourself to be.

If I met you in person, I'd slap the nonsene out of you.

I've lost good friends in this world who had it a million gazillion times harder than you but managed to keep smiling through it all, and on the polar opposite - there's you - a LOSER OF HIS OWN MAKING.

Dude - you got no one to blame but yourself, if you ever get the chance to meet someone like me - they will beat the schitt out of you and give you something REAL to complain about... I'd take your legs, and detach them from your body, and throw them into a zoo.

Then you'd be right to complain how you got dealt a bum deal.

Until then - GROW THE FRACK UP. BE A MAN. DAMMIT.

Scimi

 

[smallkid]

100,000 kisses to you my honorable brother scimi. Detaching my organs will be a big favor. How can you smile when you have no one ? What motivation can I give myself my brother ?

 

[smallkid]

my daily routine:

Wake up
pray
sleep
wakeup again
go to office by noon(nothing to do everything taken care of by employees or my brother and father)
go to zuhr
lunch
return home at 6
have tea
go to club to play squash and swim, gym
return home
eat dinner
watch tv and facebook
smoke
walk for an hour
sleep
repeat

thrice a week dinner at a restaurant with friends (boring childhood friends, no new friends) or family

how can someone be happy with such a stagnant life

 

[Scimitar]

I'd swap my life for yours in a jiffy, I tell you that much right now... you would hate my life more than your own.

You know what I just realised?

You will never be happy - you'er insatiable.

Scimi

 

[smallkid]

i need big achievments to satisfy myself and even minor flaws or failures bring me down like crazy. In school,college and university 18/20 score was a matter of life and death to me 19/20 was ok and 20/20 was the thing that could made me happy. I am not so lucky in the professional life to achieve something big and thats why the depression. If its in my hand I would be working 24 hours a day. However there is no job that can keep me busy. Even in my business I have nothing to do and spend the time either on my phone doing leisure activities or talking to the people. This coupled with the rejections have really made me feel like a loser. I cannot pick up my head up anymore. The depression is getting to me. i try to find reason why this happened and there is no divine hint or reply. I overthink the issue and slowly and gradually losing everything in terms of confidence and everything.

 

[IbnAbdulHakim]

the best way to make friends is to do it for the sake of Allaah


IE always be good to everyone - but when u see someone excelling in pleasing Allaah... be extra nice with him and keep his company - bff soon

 

[smallkid]

i dont remember being bad to anyone dear bro. Yet I have only few good friends.

 

[ardianto]

go to office by noon(nothing to do everything taken care of by employees or my brother and father)

It's remind me to two guys who I've ever met. Although their life looked pleasant (drove newest cars, had much money), but I could see that they had lack of confidence. They even felt inferior toward other men who had low income but really working, not just got money from 'blank positions' like those two guys.

Different than Scimi, I would not want to swap my life with yours. I prefer a life which I must work for life. So I can feel happy, feel grateful, when I can give something to my children that I got from my own effort.

I like challenge because challenges make me 'alive', make me have something that I want to achieve. Indeed, live without challenge is boring.

I know that you feel bored with your life. But, why don't you create a challenge for yourself?. Have a dream, and try to make your dream come true.

 

[smallkid]

exactly the same thing. Newest cars wont give me happiness anymore and I spend heavily on cars and latest gadgets and stuff thinking it will brimg me happiness. I invested into some projects some were success and others where I lost money. However, the provlem is I get bored and want to do something new irrespective of a loss or profit from the projects. 2 months do not passby and I want to do something new

 

[Scimitar]

Different than Scimi, I would not want to swap my life with yours. I prefer a life which I must work for life. So I can feel happy, feel grateful, when I can give something to my children that I got from my own effort.

oi... I like my life, it aint easy - but its mine and alhamdulillah, I have a good family, a roof over my head, my arms legs and a heart that beats blood around my body, and a mind to understand things which give me great pleasure in learning.

Would I swap for a materially inclined life which brings no pleasure except for the short term? Hell no.



I prefer books and research to fast cars and wonky business conquests

Scimi

 

[Aaqib]

my daily routine:

Wake up
pray
sleep
wakeup again
go to office by noon(nothing to do everything taken care of by employees or my brother and father)
go to zuhr
lunch
return home at 6
have tea
go to club to play squash and swim, gym
return home
eat dinner
watch tv and facebook
smoke
walk for an hour
sleep
repeat

thrice a week dinner at a restaurant with friends (boring childhood friends, no new friends) or family

how can someone be happy with such a stagnant life

Replace "smoke" with "Reciting the Quran".

 

[Lady A]

Smallkid,

I saw your list of 88 bad qualities. I challenge you to make a list of 88 blessings, even if its the smallest thing as "being able to breath"

I dare you!

 

[Muhammad]

:wasalamex

This is the third thread of this nature. I will leave it closed like the others so the OP can read and reflect on the numerous pieces of advice given.