answer is simple...NO NO NO and...NO! lol, I said it 4 times cause I wanted to emphasize the NO. 
I have been invited to so many parties, box-socials, after-parties, whatever you want to call it, I never go. there is always acohol and these parties and drugs like weed. people get drunk and high, and they are out with their girlfriends doing all kinds of fawahish, and imagine, you will be in the middle of it!
if they force you, simply complain :rant: ask them why they encourage and force people to go and dance and drink.
I have been invited to so many parties, box-socials, after-parties, whatever you want to call it, I never go. there is always acohol and these parties and drugs like weed. people get drunk and high, and they are out with their girlfriends doing all kinds of fawahish, and imagine, you will be in the middle of it!
if they force you, simply complain :rant: ask them why they encourage and force people to go and dance and drink.