horrible incident!

[zakirs]

The only comforting thought i have is that i know he cannot escape Allahs punishment, which is sure to come soon....and im hope the punishment involves him being abused in a smilar way so that he knows how it feels.

You will realise how weak he is when he would be answering questions on judgement day

 

[Asim Khan]

I pray Allah quickly removes it from both your memories. Ameen

Ameen. May Allah swt transfer a lot his neki into your accounts (or add to his badi if he can't pay).

 

[syilla]

during my school days we called it flasher lol.

Because i went to a girls school...you can imagine how many flasher are waiting after school and before school... :hmm: but they usually wait when no one around except for the school girls.

We have been advised by most of the girls there especially the seniors... to just ignore the 'flasher'. They hate it when we ignore them...especially as if we're making them invisible. And never walk alone...always walk in groups.

 

[Santoku]

last night whilst walking to taraweeh on a dark and deserted road with my female cousin, a guy suddenly came out of some dark corner and .....how should i say this.....well indecently exposed himself....he was asian, possibly muslim..i think he saw us coming and since i was fully covered, thought he would get a kick out of shocking us.

unfortuantely i will not be going to the mosque to pray taraweeh anymore , and i dont feel safe where i live , ....its an area full of crime, drugs and bad people.

What saddens and sickens me the most is that this guy, was probably 17/18 or something, and can go home and mingle and be normal, and no one will know what he has done, he must have a mother and sisters and family, and being an asian boy they prob think the world of him....which sickens me.

my poor cousin is only 15...and she panicked so badly, because ofcourse she assumed we were going to get raped, she nearly ran into traffic.She had tears in her eyes and was shaking and could not read her prayers, so we had to miss them and instead i took her and sat in the washroom area comforting her.

the worst thing was had to walk back down that way,we were terrified and we kept thinking he would still be there, so we held hands and ran all the way down, passing the canal where the boys usually go to do drugs and past the pub which for once didnt have drunken men outside it.


...sometimes i really hate being a vunerable, fragile girl.

Ah, dear, sometimes I really feel disgusted with my sex.

A cretin and a bully.

I cannot give muslim advice, but as so many have said on this board, he has committed a crime! Go to the police, flashing is a sexual offence and can go further as the offender gets older so they will take it seriously especially as one of you was under 16, they now have officers trained to help in these crimes, they have the resource, use it. You can describe him, perhaps he has done it to others so there will be more witnesses.
You are doubtless correct that he picked on you because you are covered, because he reckoned you would be even more shocked than most, and he was right,my sympathies to your cousin.
Now I am going to say something you will find harder to do even than going to the police, if you let him pen you into your house he has won, he can gloat at the fact that the sight of his parts frightened you into staying at home.
If you want to strike back at him do not let him win, I know you think of yourself as weak and fragile but truly you are only as weak and fragile as you allow yourself to be. If you have friends or relatives you can rely on, go out again after dark, but have one fifty yards in front and one fifty yards behind and then when he shows up and shows off they can intervene and make a citizens arrest, using only such force as is necessary to hold him and call the police. You understnad that I am not in any way, shape or form advising you or your relatives to take the law into their own hands, that would be very , very wrong.