How do I make my wife listen to me
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Say this douae it's very helpful
{وَالَّذِينَ يَقُولُونَ رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا} [الفرقان : 74]
Rabbana hab Lana min azwajina wa dourriyatina kourrata aeyounin wa 'jaalna lilmoutakina imama
And try to worship Allah together and be patient by correcting her let your intention for every acting with her for the sake of Allah
Say adkar and make a lot of istighfar when you argue because one of the big doing of shaytan is to cause separation between a man and his wife.
So Istighfar will break all the problems
{وَالَّذِينَ يَقُولُونَ رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا} [الفرقان : 74]
Rabbana hab Lana min azwajina wa dourriyatina kourrata aeyounin wa 'jaalna lilmoutakina imama
Say adkar and make a lot of istighfar when you argue because one of the big doing of shaytan is to cause separation between a man and his wife.
So Istighfar will break all the problems
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The first thing to do is to demonstrate to her that she will not achieve anything by raging. Stand your ground. It's just sound. Mechanical oscillations in air. Give her nothing. If that makes her rage even more, it means it's working. Be ready, though, for the possibility that she will get violent. In that case, be ready to answer in kind and use whatever violence necessary to stop her. Whatever you do, don't let her win by escalating the situation. Stand your ground, no matter what it takes.
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What surprises me is that you do all the cooking and cleaning.
I don't always do all the cooking and cleaning. Sometimes she does it sometimes but I have to ask her several times before she will do it. Every time I ask her for help with cleaning or cooking she'll reel off an excuse as to why she can't do it. It's just easier and less hassle if I just do it. I don't mind that much as it makes her happy so I kind of just get on with it. There are however times I need her to do it because I have to go out or attend a meeting.
Like I said in my other thread, everything in our marriage is fine and we have no problems with anything but occasionally I seem to say or do something which really upsets her but I don't know what it is that I do wrong... I think it's a combination of her being lazy and also her wanting to control the marriage. She basically seems me as beneath her :hmm: Everything is perfect IF I do what she says when she says without arguing back. Pathetic.
Salam. Yes if this was the case it would be much harder to solve. A wife has to be very strong to change her husband. But I would give the same advice though.