Pls let me make a few minor points.. and let's keep it this way, I know no one's opinion is going to influence anyone else's. When I go to my work I wear scrubs or skirts and blouses the days I am not on call and I have the largest selection of cardigans on the planet.
No where in my post did I say
1- wear threading, I don't honestly even know what threading is
2-wear red lipstick and tight clothes
I believe what I said is wear professional clothes and professional hijab.
I bought my sister a silk scarf from the brooks brothers, she is a doctor, she went to several interviews, she got two job offers, one at a top 10 hospital which her husband didn't agree to (because of bad hours and possible neglect to their child) and she apologized for not being able to accept it, the other at a good hospital though which were more reasonable hours.. did she get rejected from other hospitals, absolutely, you can't win everyone over. But if you expect a job, dress like a professional, have an excellent resume and carry yourself like a person able to handle the job.
Sikhs and Jews dress like professionals while upkeeping their moral code!
1-I knew I'd come under scrutiny by some for writing this, yet I still chose to not write anonymously because I am not a hypocrite, this is really what I believe you should do, so long as you are keeping with your religious codes!
2-Men in general shouldn't concern themselves too much with women's clothes, until such a time, they make the world secure for us, with Islamic state fund for our own projects such as was for Hind during the time of the prophet SAW, so that orphan, widowed, unmarried, women in debt, women in need to support their husbands, women who wish to serve other Muslim women aren't rejected and instead of honest advise as to what you think might be going wrong, you offer a don't wear threading advise.
3 - make us raise our head up high with knowledge masha'Allah left to right comparable to that of the Omayyad empire, so we can show up in frumpy clothes and be offered jobs anyway because people just know that being a Muslim is synonymous with genius!
or fix it, so that the wealth of the Muslims isn't on the hands of effete and morally desolate leaders like the sultan of Brunei who gives W H O R E S like mariah carey an 18 million dollar diamond necklace while Muslim children search in the garbage to break their fast while they are not even obligated to fast to begin with.
my two cents
