Maybe you're right, just not ready atm though. In another year insha'Allah.
Assalamu Alaikum Brother,
Then you should start visiting Fathers and meeting families a year is only 12 months and 52 weeks not much time left, you don't want to wait till the last moment, that wont impress your future father in law.
Fathers like time to adjust to things. Believe me it took me years to get used to my son in law.
I still have half a dozen to go. If you not sure, do Salatul Istikhara and if that does not get results, come back and I will scare you with Ahadith about those who don't marry.
Another good technique to marry quickly is to announce that you never going to marry, in no time you're married.
Believe me I said it and meant it and there I was married, failed as a Christian husband, then said never again and married as an Atheist vowed to remain single and finally made it as a Muslim husband 28 years Alhamdulillah.
Inshallah I'll be waiting for my invitation.
Best wishes
Masalam
PS: I'm hoping this post does not make you uncomfortable, it's between jest and serious. I'm not sure though if there is much Jest.