How I feel...

[AnonymousPoster]

Allaah will love you Inshaa'Allaah for making a sacrifice and protecting your honour during your youth... And Allaah doesnt let the good deeds of a person be lost...He will repay you...sometime someplace you will see the reward of what you do.

You keep strong young sister... be proud of who you are... you chose a path that not many chose and for that... Allaah will give you something better not only in this life but the aakhirah too Inshaa'Allaah

Masha'Allah ^^ this is beautiful advice, seriously All you need is the love of Allah Subhanahu wa ta'3la, and know sis that wearing the Hijaab and staying away from free-mising is definately going to help you in achieving the greatest of rewards in the Akhirah but more importantly the pleasure of Allah !!!

I wear the Niqaab, have been for the past 5/6 (started when I was 13) gonna be 19 soon Insha'Allah, and its been really hard, especially since I've started University and work.

I get looked down on anyway, but people start to think I'm silly or stupid for even wearing it. I don't show that some things effect me but in reality they do. I've had to take my Niqaab off for work (something I have to do to help my parents) and friends, family all argue and tell me to give it up altogether. Subhan'Allah its so painful..because they don't understand.

Working is a majboori (weakness) something I've got to do to help my parents, as I'm the eldest and my brothers aren't old enough yet. I can't get a job because I wear the Niqaab but because I have to work due to situations and circumstances that my family are in, I've had to compromise the one thing thats dear to me, and who I am, my Niqaab.

I've not given up wearing it elsewhere though, and wear it at University where I'm glared at, sneered at etc these things happen, you just get used to it. At times when I feel weak, I ponder over whether I'm doing the right thing? the shaytaan makes me want to retaliate and be vile to the people who don't understand..but at the end of the day, I know Islamically everything I'm doing is Khair, (good) ..Insha'Allah and thats all that matters and should matter.

its hard sis, I told you about myself so you know you're not alone :sunny: sisters everywhere are going through hard times whether its for the Hijaab or the Niqaab, just keep strong and know that Allah is pleased Insha'Allah so long as you don't compromise the fara'idh (obligatory) Xx

 

[Ushae]

Thank you guys so much, I never thought I would get this much advice. Great advice

Awh and thank you Ushae

I feel a lot better now, especially since an old cute lady at the grocery store said she had a lot of respect for me because of my Hijab


I really feel blessed now, and thankful. Also, I feel like I'm worth something, and that while my friend is chillin with guys, they're not exactly thinking about how nice she is on the inside.

I sometimes do however, still a little jealous that the guys are hanging out so much with her, and calling her things like beautiful. While I get nothing. But I'm willing to wait, for the person who actually means it

You're most welcome sister,

Ask yourself this...what type of people are those guys ? Would you want a great looking man with a cruel heart to say he loves you or an ordinary man with a true and honest heart to say it ?

Patience is also a virtue, good things come to those who wait. Inshallah.
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