How to become masculine?

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Real man never think "I should become masculine", but always sure that "As a man I should behave like this, not like that".

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I don't really get the question,

You are who you are.

Ideas and concepts of masculinity don't really fit.. Its the observer that ultimately decides.

What they define as masculinity or any other character trait.

So no point really. Curls for the gurls.. functional strength.. Self esteem whatever.

Its not really a question until you tell us your intent.

Clark Kent, not quick enough, not strong enough, not smart enough...

But the question still stands.
 
Every woman crave a man who will make her feel secure with him, feel happy with him. If you are a man like this, then you are masculine.

Masculine is different than macho. You may become a macho man who is muscular, ride Harley Davidson, love to fight with other men. But if you cannot make a woman feel secure and happy with you, then you are not masculine.

So, how to become masculine?. Treat the women respectfully. :)
 
ardianto said:
Every woman crave a man who will make her feel secure with him, feel happy with him. If you are a man like this, then you are masculine.

Masculine is different than macho. You may become a macho man who is muscular, ride Harley Davidson, love to fight with other men. But if you cannot make a woman feel secure and happy with you, then you are not masculine.

So, how to become masculine?. Treat the women respectfully. :)
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I'm not married how do I know if I respect women?
 
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Sometimes there is a lot of good in things that one finds hard to bare.. Although I can't remember exactly.

May Allah swt make it easy for you.



...do you even lift bro? ;D :p
 
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StrivingforDeen said:
I'm not married how do I know if I respect women?
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Surely you have a Mother. If you are still in contact with her, do you respect her?

Appearance of a man: grow a beard. I know you said you are young, but that is a manly attribute.

Characteristics of a man: patient, fair, responsible, honest, genuine.

You could always try and follow in the footsteps of Prophet Mohammed SAW.
 
Those character traits are very benicial to the other half for sure.

The truth is some things can only be done while asleep.

The rest is a learning experience.
 
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Assalaamu alaikum Striving,

I ask because you "sound" very young. (smile) I try to offer comments that are useful and appropriate for the person I am "speaking" with. Frankly, I would answer your question about what is means to be a man differently depending on whether you were 13 or 23 or 43 or 53….

So, my dear… how old are you (don't be shy)? (smile) My now-13 year-old son was posting comments on a political forum when he was 11. And I think this is a very positive thing. We need voices of all types and ages, don't you think?

May Allah Bless you, my dear.
 
To be masculine. Never agree with ur nafs. Its entrance gate for shaitan. Once he captured the gate. U will loose...
up to u how control ur nafs.. ur this exaM tine finish at death. And afterwards be the results for u dear
 
StrivingforDeen said:
I don't stay with women... (not as in an offensive way I don't literally saty with anyone)
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Since my wife passed away I don't live with woman, but I interact with women everyday. My neighbors, my customers, female food vendors, etc. Like with a beautiful girl who comes to my office almost everyday to send package. She always smile and greet me politely when we meet. And she never hesitate to ask me when she has question. Yes, she feel secure with me because she knows that I am a man who always polite toward women.

Okay, how to become masculine?. Basically every man has masculine character in himself. And this character developed through his life experience in society. So, bro, your masculine character will not developed if you just stay in your room.
 
I was talking about character and not physique. Not something one should worry about as character develops naturally. Women develop feminine attributes and men develop masculine ones.

so what are masculine attributes as opposed to feminine ones? You might want to Google them and list them.
 

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