The urge to live is very strong in all creatures. Believe it or not, that's also true for Muslims.
If it weren't, you'd see a huge spike in the amount of Muslims seeking matyrdom.
But, if you truly want to stop suicide bombings, martyrdom is not the ultimate reason.
You need to peel back the layers, until you find the root cause for suicide bombings.
The latest study shows (which lay people in the Third World have known for a while), is invasions, oppression, tyranny, puppet governments that were planted & nurtured by some Western powers.
The study also shows that the motivating factor for suicide bombings weren't religious reasons, but political/military.
I can post the study with the link, if it's ok with admin & the mods.
Also, I can post many articles and reports which show that suicide bombings aren't a Muslim phenomenon. That Christians and members of other faiths have practiced it, also.
I can also post that car bombings weren't introduced into the Middle East nor invented by Arabs nor Muslims.
I can also post that terrorism/bombings started with the Jewish terrorist groups in Palestine, before Israel's independence.
I can also post articles about the terrorism & bombings that afflicted Europe
in the 70's.
I can also post proof of European/American state sponsored terrorism against their own people and against Third World nations.
Again, with prior approval of admin/mods...