How to tell a woman that she is being cheated by a man?

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sister herb said:
And you will get as answer: "you are just jealous about my happiness and try to destroy it!"

Hey I know this thing - I have an insider information about how women think and behave. ;D
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Exactly, it's called denial. You can bang your head against the wall but they won't understand if they don't want to.

We sisters have revolutionary ideas and theories about the psychology of women - it's just no-one takes us seriously, lol.
 
sister herb said:
And you will get as answer: "you are just jealous about my happiness and try to destroy it!" Hey I know this thing - I have an insider information about how women think and behave. ;D
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If it were you,.... Would be the same reaction as above mentioned by you....? It proves that women, generally, take the decision by heart, not by mind....????
 
azc said:
If it were you,.... Would be the same reaction as above mentioned by you....? It proves that women, generally, take the decision by heart, not by mind....????
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Sure. I am not above of the "average woman" and I too might have had my "blind moments" at the past (and now I call them as "life experiences"). But remember that also women don´t take the decisions by heart all the time.

But what about men; do they have also their "blind moments"? Personally I think yes they too might have them.
 
azc said:
If it were you,.... Would be the same reaction as above mentioned by you....? It proves that women, generally, take the decision by heart, not by mind....????
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No human being, be it a woman or a man is a PURE rational and logical being. If that was the case, we would NOT fall in the same trap we already have fallen. As logic dictates that you steer your way away from things that will not bring you any good.
 
sister herb said:
Sure. I am not above of the "average woman" and I too might have had my "blind moments" at the past (and now I call them as "life experiences"). But remember that also women don´t take the decisions by heart all the time. But what about men; do they have also their "blind moments"? Personally I think yes they too might have them.
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man isn't exempted though but he can't share his girl with any other person in case evidences are put
 
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Simple_Person said:
but often in the western world, women have multiple partners and not sticking with one partner for all their needs. As multiple partners can each give her what she wants.
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Do not think that woman is smart. The smart are those men. They do not regard her as partner, but see her as "public property" that can be used by anyone. Dating with woman who date with other men can minimize risk if something happen to this woman, like she get pregnant. Those men can easily say "Don't ask my responsibility if you date with other men too!".

Those men indeed give her money or some stuff. But they want this woman pay it with 'service'. If they think the 'service' is not worth for the 'payment', or they get bored with this woman, they will leave her and behave like nothing happened between them and her before.

Women like this do exist in my country too. I've ever met few of them.
 
nightingale said:
To tell a woman that she is being cheated by a man...write an anonymous letter. Seriously, most women would take it, at least it will be in her thoughts, when she deals with him the next time.
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Good idea. Anonymous letter sometime work in case like this.
 
ardianto said:
Good idea. Anonymous letter sometime work in case like this.
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But only in some cases and I think they are quite rare. Normally woman is thinking that this is someone who is "jealous about hers happiness and wants to destroy it as spreading bad, anonymous rumors - sure some other girl who wish to get this perfect man to herself".

When person is blind to any sense, she really is blind.
 
ardianto said:
Do not think that woman is smart. The smart are those men. They do not regard her as partner, but see her as "public property" that can be used by anyone. Dating with woman who date with other men can minimize risk if something happen to this woman, like she get pregnant. Those men can easily say "Don't ask my responsibility if you date with other men too!".

Those men indeed give her money or some stuff. But they want this woman pay it with 'service'. If they think the 'service' is not worth for the 'payment', or they get bored with this woman, they will leave her and behave like nothing happened between them and her before.

Women like this do exist in my country too. I've ever met few of them.
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I know these type of women exist everywhere, however, in majority of other countries, this is branded as abnormal. However in the west this has become a normal thing.
 
I've ever told my late wife, that "When a man cheat his woman, other men around him are becoming blind and deaf". What I meant was those men behave like they don't see, don't hear.

Men are not hesitate to remind their friend who commit something wrong like using drug or commit fraud in business. However, for men, relationship between a man and a woman is privacy that should not be intervened by other men. That's why they do not remind their friend who cheats a woman. The worse is, some men regard cheating a woman is action of manliness. So, instead of remind him, they praise him.

No wonder if many men still cheat women, without feel guilty. :hmm:
 

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