Husband angry over my lack of action

[Snowflake]

Al hamdulillah sis Riana

 

[ardianto]

I think people are different. because even in the above situations you mentioned I would still get annoyed and feel as if "what business does that guy have talking with my wife, sure he may known her from somewhere in the past" but that's exactly that, the past, she's not his relation in anyway, so what business does he have coming up to my wife like that. He doesn't need to approach her, it was unnecessary for him to approach her.

That's what would be going through my mind, and if you kept doing it I would get annoyed and tell you stop approaching my wife cos you have no business talking to her any more, even if I'm there. People are different I guess.

If I walk alone and accidentally meet my wife's friend but I do not greet her, my wife will angry to me if she know about it, because in my place if we do not greet (at least with sign) someone who we know, it's considered as not polite.

And if I my wife's friend, or my female friend, is walking with her husband, I must greet her husband too and explain where or how I know his wife. If I greet the wife only and do not greet her husband, this in not polite too.

But every place has different manner and etiquette. In another place if I greet other man's wife, it can make her husband angry to me.

If I wrote about trust that I give to my wife in other post, it's because in the OP case, I could feel her husband trust her too. And I just want to remind her not to break her husband trust.

 

[Cabdullahi]

I hope the word 'femalefriend' isn't used to legitimize having girlfriends. (Oh we chat and everything but she's just a femalefriend...nothing more)

If there's a female work colleague, keep it strictly about work, a distant-professional relationship....no parties....no dinner after-work....no flirting

No problems.

 

[syilla]

what does it mean if a husband is not jealous? hmmmmmmmm.....:? :hmm: