I am a sad Father. Advice please...

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raOnar said:
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Its sad to hear this. My little sister when she was 4, used to come home nd stay for hours in the bath trying to scrub of her brown skin. I used to find it funny, but it sadning in a way. However kids are kids and it takes time for them to get used to it, eventually my sister did make friends with them :)
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That is really sad :( I can imagine how she felt.


chacha_jalebi said:
this has really like hurt me man

in london? subhanallah, im shocked akhi, which school!

move her, its the best option and make a complaint againist these kids, but move her,

in london, one of the best muslim primary schools is al noor, in ilford, but its not free :mmokay: their fees are like £2500 and they do accept fees per term aswell,

and another one i know off is noor ul islam in leyton, but they like weird lol, and im not sure of their fees or anythin, but do check both of them out and do some own research, inshallah the kiddy will find a better school!
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Thank you Chaha Jalebi..
I will Email or call Al-noor today :thumbs_up

When you say Noor ul Islam is weird how do you mean? Why are they weird lol.

We found an Islamic School in Barking called Apex. I have already Emailed them.

Jazakallah Khairan :thumbs_up
 
Things are not going according to plan..

My mum is completely against putting my daughter in an Islamic School. My wife is afraid it may cause friction in the family if we put her in an Islamic School.

Looks like we have to hide that fact that we are Muslims in this country. People are ashamed of it :(

Its up to Allah now. I don't know what to do.
 
I am sorry to hear that, Hamayun.

But you may be right, perhaps there is a reason which only Allah knows and which is beyond your own understanding now.

There could be positives to your daughter going to a mixed school (see Trumble's and Skye's posts):
  • Your daughter may make friends across other cultures and faiths
  • You and your family may have an opportunity to introduce an uninformed community to your own way of life and faith

For now I just pray that you and your family will know God's peace.
May His will be done in your situation.

Perhaps one more piece of advice, especially now things are turning out not quite as planned:
Try to shield your daughter as much as you possibly can from your own fears and worries.
Try to be positive about school.
Try to look for good things which have happened to her during the day, and talk to her about them.
Try to smile! :statisfie

Best wishes
 
Contrary to what people may think, but Islamic Schools are the best (I reckon anyway) and as sis Skye said, Muslims come in all colours, shapes and sizes..so discrimination is nil..Plus if it's taught in the correct manner, they main things they teach first are Aadab and Akhlaq which keeps them steadfast with the most polite manners ever!
It's so sad to see your daughter being treated in such a manner, but if she knows you love her then Alhamdulillah she's extremely lucky!
I hope all goes well Insha'allah!
 
Thanks Musaafir and Glo for your kind words. I do admit I over reacted a bit initially. I feel a bit silly for starting this thread :-[ Kids will be kids.

And yes Glo you are right. Allah protects and guides whom he wills. I will protect and guide her to the best of my ability. The rest is up to Allah.
 
aw that very sad. May Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala bless your little girl and help her to find friends and be happy. ameen.
 

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