I am engaged :)

[جوري]

Mabrook.. may Allah swt grant you every happiness and bless your marriage

ameen

 

[Ibn Abi Ahmed]

Mabrook! Really happy for you bro! May Allaah bless your marriage!

 

[Raudha]

Mabrook Brother Najm..Thats great to hear MashaAllah...Alhamdulillah...
May Allah keep you happy together and grant you many pious, healthy and beautiful children who will be the coolness of your eyes. Ameen

My advice to you will be to LISTEN to your wife whenever she speaks and take her seriously. (There are many other things that I could have said but I'm sure everyone else will cover the other important points :ermm

Mabrook again brother. And Ameen to all the ad'iyaa.

 

[unknown_JJ]

My advice to you will be to LISTEN to your wife whenever she speaks and take her seriously.

bery gd advice sis!

Congratz najm,hop it goes well for u, make ur weddin at nyt, coz mynz in d afternoon lol

Asalamu alaykum

 

[Beblessed]

mashAllaah mabrook bro!
May Allaah swt bless your marriage with love & happiness, ameen

 

[Najm]

AsSalamOAlaikum WaRehmatuAllah WaBarkatuhu

Poor you :hmm:


lol Mabrook Akhee Good thing is... it's after ramadan.

Dont worry bro im happy im getting married :embarrass

What comes after ramadhan?

:wa:



May Allah bless your marriage .

a link on how to be a good husband


The Ideal Muslim Husband

http://www.soundvision.com/Info/Islam/marriage.ideal.asp

JazakiAllah, thats what i needed!!!! Ameen.

mabrook. Akhee, if you want some *halal* wedding music (only duff), let me know inshallah (but they are in arabic).

JazakiAllah lets see what you have inshaAllah, i would like some english ones 2, without the haram background music please

Congrats bro :shade:

i thought you were against getting married:hiding:

I wasnt against marriage!!!:nervous: lol you cant prove it!!! Na i was trying to teach that being single is important stage of your life.

Assalmu Alikum

Congrats!!!

26th of October is my birthday o__o

Your invited!! All the members too!!

Surprise surprise! I mean really lol! MashaAllah bro, I bet your excited
Ameen to all the du'as and future du'as. Ameeeeen! =]

A good surprise right.:statisfie I am excited but nervous, cos my dad said she might bite if i dont do my duty :embarrass

bery gd advice sis!

Congratz najm,hop it goes well for u, make ur weddin at nyt, coz mynz in d afternoon lol

Asalamu alaykum

JazakiAllah Khair. The elderlys decide the venue etc.

Ameen to all the dua's. And please feel free to advice me and post lectures.etc. Your more than welcome ( need all the help i can get) JazakAllah Firdoos!

FiAmaaniAllah

 

[Hidaya]

Congratulations brother :]
May Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala bless your marriage!

 

[Ar-RaYYan]

Mabrook brother Najm very happy for you.

May Allah keep you happy together and grant you many pious, healthy and beautiful children who will be the coolness of your eyes. Ameen

Ameen and ameen to all the duas.

 

[Nσσя'υℓ Jαииαн]

AsSalamOAlaikum WaRehmatuAllah WaBarkatuhu





A good surprise right.:statisfie I am excited but nervous, cos my dad said she might bite if i dont do my duty :embarrass

SubhanAllah brother ;D lol!

InshaAllah maybe she won't bite too hard :shade:

Good surprise indeed. I hope InshaAllah soon I would surprise you back!

All the best akhi!

 

[Mohamed_]

Mashallah! Congratulation bro! And good luck!

 

[Eric H]

Blessings and peace be with you Najml, may Allah bless your marriage.

Always remember. There is no marriage without problem, and there is no problem without solution.

Congratulations, brother.

I like this advice, it requires love, forgiveness and perseverance, time after time.

And of course to put Allah at the centre of all that you both do

In the spirit of praying for peace on Earth

Eric

 

[Ali_008]

Congrats bro and ameen to all the duas.

 

[Ummu Sufyaan]

:wasalamex

AsSalamOAlaikum WaRehmatuAllah WaBarkatuhu

Ameen to all the dua's. And please feel free to advice me and post lectures.etc. Your more than welcome ( need all the help i can get) JazakAllah Firdoos!

FiAmaaniAllah

i havnt read this myself, but something that comes to mind is Sheikh al-albaani's "the etiquette of Marriage"
http://www.ahlalhdeeth.com/vb/showthread.php?t=99633
(im not sure if its the whole book though?)

my advice:

• respect her family/parents.
  
• respect her/treat her well, compliment her.
  
• get her opinion/thoughts on certain matters (and your *future* kids as well, inshallah)
  
• help her out with the housework very now and again.
  
• take her out/spoil her/buy her gifts every now and again
  
• advice her kindly in the matters of deen and dunya/give her dawah when needed.
  
• respect her rights as your wife as you would want/expect her to respect your rights.
  
• never put her down/humiliate her (and especially not in front of others)
  
• treat your wife and your mother as co-wives, and be careful how you deal with each of the, in front of the other. meaning, you are a pillar for both them, so they are both dependent on you in several ways--->like co-wives...if you can avoid it, do not side with your wife in front of your mother as to not cause hurt for your mother. and like wise, do not side with your mother in front of your wife, as to not cause hurt to your wife.
  
• if there is argument between the 2, do your best to be just to both of them. hear both sides of the story and take it from there. either way, be as kind and understanding as you can to both of them.
  
• if you argue with your wife, try sort it out between the two of you first before you go to your family (no disrespect intended) for the reason being that things will get too emotional and possibly out of hand for no reason (i've seen it happen toooo many times). so if that can be avoided, do it!!!
  
• and i nearly forgot, do not get her a co-wife or joke around that you will :anger: :raging:

as for the nasheeds, I've sent you them (and the other sis who requested ) through PM's in case people will listen to them for no reason

 

[Far7an]

• and i nearly forgot, do not get her a co-wife or joke around that you will :anger: :raging:

You mean do not get married a second time? Why not?

 

[Musaafirah]

Congratuwatulations!!
The dude that always posted marriagey threads finally getting married innit?!
Seriously, wedding season or what?!

 

[Ansariyah]

MashaAllah! Wow!!¬
I saw this one coming, after the oh so many marriage threads u been creating haa! Now u can put it all into practise inshaAllah.

BarakAllahu laka wa lakum wa jama3a baynakuma fil khair. Ameen!

The only advice I can give u is, treat ur wife like a Princess InshaAllah!
InshaAllah in return she'll treat u like her prince! Ameen

 

[Danah]

MashaAllah, Mabrook brother!
May Allah bless you marriage and grant you a good pious family

maybe this thread will help:
60 ways keep ur wifes love

 

[Muhaba]

that is so awesome. i am so happy for you. May Allah make it a blessed & happy marriage.

 

[Kas1m]

Mabrooks brother...Mashallah

 

[Kas1m]

Women are an emotional rollercoaster. I always say that so they are far from handling...more like controlling.