I am so negative

[AnonymousPoster]

Got to get it off my chest i realise i have a problem and is my view on the world and my own self i am very negative and a bit of a feminist.
istafullah but i seriously dislike men nt only them but people in general i always expect the worst and at times i wish for death because i am tired of my life nothing challenges me anymore is the same routine everyday nothing fun nothing exciting.

i am about to marry soon but most muslim women i know are mistreated which is making me wondering whether i should take a risk, people usually dissapoint me ,this includes friends and family i dont want to add a man to that list.

any dua to make me more positive and less angry. sorry if i sound like a weirdo lol

 

[IbnAbdulHakim]

assalamu alaikum

you sound like a very angry and bitter person... i might be completely wrong maybe your jolly and cheerful allahu a'lam.


but why be negative when everything is controlled by Allaah?.. thats All i gotta say..

 

[Sahabiyaat]

dont take any risks, nobody is worth the risk when it comes to things like this, make a well informed desicion, and if you have any doubts, act on them

cheer up.

Im surrounded by abusive marriages, but i know there are better people out there, I put my trust in Allah and so shud u.

 

[IbnAbdulHakim]

i think we are all surrounded by abusive marriages, but we still accept that whatever happens happens by the will of Allaah