I don't know how to tell my children

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A lot of times people think children will be against their parents' remarrying but the truth may be the opposite. It's possible your children may actually want you to remarry if they are undrrstanding and mature enough. So it's a good idea to talk to them about it. I Bring up the subject in a casual manner from time to time and judge their reaction and get them used to the idea before introducing the woman so they aren't shocked by it. Another thing you can do is to have them meet her in a family gathering, such as in your pars' or sister's home. May Allah make things easy for you.
 
Muhaba said:
A lot of times people think children will be against their parents' remarrying but the truth may be the opposite. It's possible your children may actually want you to remarry if they are undrrstanding and mature enough. So it's a good idea to talk to them about it. I Bring up the subject in a casual manner from time to time and judge their reaction and get them used to the idea before introducing the woman so they aren't shocked by it. Another thing you can do is to have them meet her in a family gathering, such as in your pars' or sister's home. May Allah make things easy for you.
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I don't think my children want me to remarry. They haven't mature enough. The oldest is 16 years old and the youngest is 10 years old. Both are boys. They are very close to me. But I think they can understand if I can tell them in right manner.

Introduce someone in family gathering is a good idea. But it should not be sudden because it can make my family, especially my children, so shocked. Need a talk before.

Jazakillah khayr for your advice, sister.
 
ardianto said:
I don't think my children want me to remarry. They haven't mature enough. The oldest is 16 years old and the youngest is 10 years old. Both are boys. They are very close to me. But I think they can understand if I can tell them in right manner.

Introduce someone in family gathering is a good idea. But it should not be sudden because it can make my family, especially my children, so shocked. Need a talk before.

Jazakillah khayr for your advice, sister.
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That's good I think. And also please make dua to get guidance.. hope your life better :)
 

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