I don't know if I should continue...

[Dagless]

The sister said he told her she was beautiful. This means he did see her face. After all if he hadn't and he still thought she was beautiful, then he would be referring to her in full hijab, niqaab, abaya and hence him saying he might not be attracted to her later due to the abaya does not make sense.

Or a beautiful person? Lets wait until the sister confirms.

It could be a sign from Allah for the sister bro.

It could be... and if his reasons turn out to be immodesty and against teachings then she should run, but she should hear the full story first is all I'm saying.

 

[cat eyes]

dagless who told you abaaya is not part of islam? abaaya according to countless hadiths is very much 100percent compulsory for ensuring a womans modesty.

I Dont want to get into debate with you now about this because it would be off topic. also i think you should also learn the meaning of ''hijab''

Niqaab is the face veil. hijab shows the face. i would also like to remind some members here that theres absolutely no point in advising somebody and telling them there is other forms of modesty without evidence from the Quran and sunnah. fear Allah and realise that there is others reading from your advice too.

 

[Dagless]

dagless who told you abaaya is not part of islam? abaaya according to countless hadiths is very much 100percent compulsory for ensuring a womans modesty.

I Dont want to get into debate with you now about this because it would be off topic. also i think you should also learn the meaning of ''hijab''

Niqaab is the face veil. hijab shows the face. i would also like to remind some members here that theres absolutely no point in advising somebody and telling them there is other forms of modesty without evidence from the Quran and sunnah. fear Allah and realise that there is others reading from your advice too.

Ok this is for a different topic. It depends if you consider the abaya and jilbab the same thing since afaik you can buy abaya in different styles etc. and only one can be considered the jilbab mentioned in the Quran. I also always thought the garment itself was of lesser concern as long as it met the objectives (covering, being thick, being long, and being wide). You are right though I should not be interpreting things without providing proof, and I have deleted the part where I said that.

I know the meanings of the words thank you, however, many people use terms loosely.

I have left the remainder of my advice since it is still my opinion.

 

[Nσσя'υℓ Jαииαн]

Imagine saying all this to the sahaabiyaat and wives of the Prophet(saw)? WOULD you dare? Probably not! The abaya is in the least the most modest as opposed to long skirts even. They leave no room for screw ups mashaAllah. TOTAL COVER.

 

[Cabdullahi]

what does he want to see the sister in? miniskirt and tiny top.....no we're muslims and the abaya is the dress for the muslimah

if he doesnt like it....tell him to go elsewhere

 

[Snowflake]

=Dagless;1323292]Or a beautiful person? Lets wait until the sister confirms.

Hm.. the sister said, "He assured me that he did think I was beautiful and he loves my personality..." That means both looks and as a person.

It could be... and if his reasons turn out to be immodesty and against teachings then she should run, but she should hear the full story first is all I'm saying.

You just see the good in everyone bro lol. MashaAllah! But a woman's intuition is God given to her for her own protection. When she senses something is wrong - 99.9 it is wrong. Something has bothered the sis. That speaks volumes.