i don't like interracial marriages....

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Likewise,we will not care since our parents are muslims but new converts hv to do this to complete them accepting Islam.
 
I thought that racism is a sin in Islam. As long as both parties are believers that should make the foundation for the marriage.
 
But I bet it is reasonable for a born Jewish.
 
See, one thing is not to like for yourself, and its a whole nother thing to not like in general. There is nothing wrong with interracial marriages as long as the person who performs it realizes and understands the differences. If both parties are okay and know what they are up to, I don't see any reason why they should not be together... right?
 
Yeah but the point here is tht: We should not look for extra provisions in our meal (wife) as even if you have basic it will do

Now lets stop discussing because we are all slightly off topic.
 
first of all, i know one family that had there son marry a former jewish girl who became muslim, and that girl he married was either middle eastern or european girl or american though, i honestly didn't like the way she looked, i can't believe on why a guy like him would want to marry her.

this has nothing do to with racism, this has something to do with what i said in this thread.
 
First of all, since im pakistani, im gonna marry a pakistani girl that was raised where i live.
I was thinking about marrying some malaysian or indonesian or far east asian muslim girl though, but i know its not gonna exactly work though.

Why did Allah have to give everyone different languages and cultures, i understand that he made them look different, but why not have the same langauge so we can understand them better?
 
We should all learn Arabic since it is the language of our holy book.
 
MrKhan89 said:
another i forgot to mention is, it also matters is the person recently converted to islam, because if the person is not religious and became muslim; that person probably won't be a good muslim, but if the person is religious then yes; that person will definitely be a good muslim.
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well thats a bit generalised since not every born muslim is practising anyway...

and as for food...lol
 
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First of all, since im pakistani, im gonna marry a pakistani girl that was raised where i live.
I was thinking about marrying some malaysian or indonesian or far east asian muslim girl though, but i know its not gonna exactly work though.

Why did Allah have to give everyone different languages and cultures, i understand that he made them look different, but why not have the same langauge so we can understand them better?
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May Allah bless you with the right wife and make you both vey happy. Peace brother
 
How would we come to try and understand one another if Allah Ta'ala made us all the same? I'd say it'd be not as fun...and ultimately Allah knows best, we don't.
 
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because, you have to consider 2 things, first thing is what food will the wife like or the husband will like, since im pakistani, i know many people won't like spicy food, and i probably won't like their food.

second thing is what language you'll mostly speak, mostly likely your gonna speak english, but honestly i only feel comfortable speaking my own language more than english.
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Bro these are minor issues, I can understand your view as I'm pakistani and people over there are can be narrow minded. A persons deen is the most important factor in a marriage which definately isn't in pakistan. The factors in pakistan for marriage are: nationality or family (obviously pakistani), wealth, family name, degree, tribe, skin colour, race, if you're sayyid or not!! etc

I don't think deen even comes into it
 
:sl: Do you not like the idea of an interracial marriage for yourself, or the idea of interracial marriage in general?

If it's the former, then that's your business, that's really racist. At the end of the day we are all Muslim, one ummah. Bro have you ever read the last sermon of the Prophet Muhammad salAllaahu 'alayhi wasalam, he spoke exactly about this.

Reverts/converts whatever you want to call them, are usually from families that hate islam and once their family finds out they have no place to go. And through all of their trials and tribulations just trying to fight to keep their deen they still have their imaan intact. So please do not make gross generalisations that have no real bearing, because it's actually quite the opposite most reverts are very religious some might say even more religious than ''born Muslims'' because they've been convinced about Islam and they fought for it.

And finally, I'd just like to say. Do you only hang around Pakistani people? Do you not have any other friends from different races? Cause the way you think is really close-minded inshaAllaah you become a little more open-minded about this.

Even though I prefer my own race over others, it doesn't mean I have to hate other races. In fact, most of my friends are from different races marrying from my own race is just a personal choice. And because of that I don't think reverts are ''less religious'' than born Muslims, I don't think I have to compromise my own culture for another, and I don't hate their food. Those are really trivial things bro, and when it comes down to it the child will most likely have a better understanding of different cultures since he/she will come from one inshaAllaah.

It's all about understanding each other's differences and making the effort. And if it has no place in Islam, then we leave it. Period.
 
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:sl: Do you not like the idea of an interracial marriage for yourself, or the idea of interracial marriage in general?

If it's the former, then that's your business, that's really racist. At the end of the day we are all Muslim, one ummah. Bro have you ever read the last sermon of the Prophet Muhammad salAllaahu 'alayhi wasalam, he spoke exactly about this.

Reverts/converts whatever you want to call them, are usually from families that hate islam and once their family finds out they have no place to go. And through all of their trials and tribulations just trying to fight to keep their deen they still have their imaan intact. So please do not make gross generalisations that have no real bearing, because it's actually quite the opposite most reverts are very religious some might say even more religious than ''born Muslims'' because they've been convinced about Islam and they fought for it.

And finally, I'd just like to say. Do you only hang around Pakistani people? Do you not have any other friends from different races? Cause the way you think is really close-minded inshaAllaah you become a little more open-minded about this.

Even though I prefer my own race over others, it doesn't mean I have to hate other races. In fact, most of my friends are from different races marrying from my own race is just a personal choice. And because of that I don't think reverts are ''less religious'' than born Muslims, I don't think I have to compromise my own culture for another, and I don't hate their food. Those are really trivial things bro, and when it comes down to it the child will most likely have a better understanding of different cultures since he/she will come from one inshaAllaah.

It's all about understanding each other's differences and making the effort. And if it has no place in Islam, then we leave it. Period.
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Yeap totally agree with you :thumbs_up
 
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I am British born revert married to a British born Pakistani. Alhamdulillah we get on really well and food is by no means the worst problem faced by married. We agree on many things and also disagree on many things. If both partners had the same likes and dislikes wouldn't that be a boring marriage. Marriage is about understanding and compromise, amongst other things. We have spicy food sometimes, and we have "plain" food other times. I can cook both Asian and British food, as well as food from other cultures.

About language, Ive been married 4 years now and I understand my husbands families language, even though most of the time they speak English. InshAllah language is not a problem. One can easily learn another language. And it is fantastic for kids to start life with more than one language. MY daughter was bi-lingual at the age of just a few months!!!!SubhanAllah

When I look around us, I see many people who are within a multi racial marriage, but I think if anything, this strengthens the bond between husband and wife. You learn many things about each other and as long as you are both good Muslims with the right intentions then nothing can steer you wrong inshAllah

just my humble opinion
 
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